OK, so you’ve finally done it...

You wrote up an awesome online dating profile, sent emails to all the attractive women you can find, and now you're going to meet one of them in person.

At last, you’re going to meet her LIVE!

Now, I’m assuming you did all the right things when emailing her.  You built plenty of rapport and got her VERY excited to meet you.  This is very important when meeting women online.  If you made the mistake of “half-assing” the whole thing, you’ll find yourself with a woman who doesn’t have any desire to meet you.

And the inevitable game of phone tag begins…

And you never meet her in person.

Now, let’s assume it’s going to happen.  During your phone conversation you DID remember to set up a meet… Right?

That’s why you are doing online dating!  To meet women live and in person.

You don’t want to get caught in a frustrating game of “trying to nail her down.”  If that’s what is happening, then chances are you did something wrong in your emails and she doesn’t REALLY want to meet you.

So, to make sure that doesn’t happen you HAVE to nail down a time and place for that first meet at the END of the FIRST phone call.

Read that again to make sure it sinks in!  DO NOT get stuck doing phone tag.  That sucks!

So, when is a good time to meet her?  Is there a perfect time and day?

Yes, there is.

And that time is…as soon as possible!

Do you understand what I’m saying?  You want to get her off emails and off phone calls and in person as quickly as you can so you can start having face to face conversations.  You don't like to waste time and neither does she.

What I’m saying is you need to set up a meet within a few days of that first phone call.  I don’t care if it’s on a weekend or not.  You may have heard some guys tell you to not meet on weekends to give the impression you are busy and have a life.

This is BAD ADVICE!

I know from experience because I used to play those games.  And what happened?  I ended up screwing myself.

If you try to delay things for any reason, you'll KILL all the momentum you built up in emails and on the phone.  It’s SUPER important to keep it going.  That’s why you want to meet up as quickly as possible. 

You’re a man and you take the lead on things.  You call the shots and you get things moving!

This is how you want to do it.  Trust me.

So, next time you meet a woman off the internet, take it offline as SOON as possible!