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More On Writing Dating Profiles

Let me ask you…

Are you STRUGGLING at meeting women online?

You are?

Well, guess what?

You aren’t alone.

The fact is, MOST men fail at online dating and quit within WEEKS after posting their first online dating profile.

Well, why is that?

Are all women on Internet dating sites that mean? Do they just NOT like men at all?

No, obviously that isn’t the case! After all, we all know some guys that are having a LOT of success with online dating. You’ve heard about them… right?

“Dude!!! I’m getting laid left and right from women I met on Match.com. What’s your problem??? It’s so easy!”

Well, one of two things is going on there. Either these guys are lying, or they know something the rest don’t. Maybe they searched the net for dating profile examples for men, and found the “perfect dating ad.” Maybe they all look like Brad Pitt.

Well, I’m here to tell you that when it comes to having success with meeting women online, you HAVE to have TWO things right. Screw up either one of them, and you will NOT be meeting ANY women!

The first is your dating profile. This needs to be solid. It needs to really show your personality! The days of laundry lists and facts are LONG GONE! (In fact, I’m not sure these kinds of dating profiles were ever successful.) Women are drawn to EMOTIONS, and in particular mystery and intrigue.

Why do you think romance novels are so popular? Women can’t buy them up fast enough because they CAN’T resist them!

So, making your profile convey a sense of mystery is paramount and you MUST learn how to do it right.

No…copying dating profile examples for men off the internet is NOT going to cut it. Women want to meet YOU, not some guy you are pretending to be.

The next thing you want to do is convey a sense of confidence. Use assertive, commanding language in your profile, BUT don’t overdo it.

Confidence is sexy, cockiness is a turn off!

Finally, show some humor! Online dating should NOT be serious. Show her you have a clever sense of humor. It’s always great to end your profile by poking fun at other guys on internet dating sites.

So, now you know how to write an eye-catching, compelling online dating profile. That’s the all important FIRST step to online dating success.

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How To Find Your Type Online

Have you ever been on a date with a woman you met online and you just didn’t “feel it?”

I know I have. In fact, when I was first starting out with online dating I was getting increasingly frustrated at my inability to meet one of the “good ones.” I would go on date after date with VERY attractive women only to ultimately fail at making a true, lasting connection with most of them.

Well, I knew something had to change. Was it me? Was I just not compatible with any women? No, that couldn’t be the case! After all, I had been in relationships with women before and things worked just fine. So why is it so HARD to meet the right woman from the Internet?

Well, that’s when it hit me like a ton of bricks… Screening!! I’m not screening correctly. In other words, I’m not really seeing a woman for who she is in her profile. If I’m not seeing what she’s really about before meeting her, then chances are, we’ll have a hard time making a connection in person. I need to screen women based on their profiles before I email them. Then my results will improve!

So, I had to take a long look at myself and figure out whom I really want. What are the qualities I most admire in a woman? Was there anyone I dated in the past where things really clicked? What was she like?

Well, based on my experiences, I was able to come up with a woman who is JUST my type. She has to be attractive with dark features. OK, that’s the physical stuff but there needs to be something deeper. She needs to have a certain personality type that’s different from mine. She must be my opposite.

Wow, that’s it!! All the women I’ve ever dated have been my opposite in personality type. Doesn’t really make sense but that’s when things worked out the best. I’m more of a quiet, analytical kind of guy. Well, I’m an engineer so that makes sense. Most of the women I’ve dated who I really liked were more outgoing and spontaneous. I always like a woman with a sense of adventure and creative flair. Well, then that is exactly what I need to be looking for online!

After I realized it was more about personality than anything else, I learned how to screen women in the correct way. Here I was focusing on trivial things like common interests and hobbies, when those things really didn’t matter at all.

Ever gone on a date with a woman who was JUST LIKE YOU. You thought she was your soul mate because she also loved sports, Volkswagens and rock climbing but it still didn’t work out??

Well, here’s why. She wasn’t your opposite in personality type. Opposites compliment each other and that’s why they get along so well.

So, next time you go online looking for HOT babes, you need to put things like hobbies and common interests on the back burner. Unfortunately, most Internet dating sites use these things to match people, which is totally wrong. Instead, really look at her profile and determine her personality. It’s not as tough as you think. Look at her writing style. Look at her pictures. If you look closely enough you will finally “see” her.

Once you become good at screening for your type, you’ll become a true Internet dating master in no time!

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The BEST sample profiles

So, you sit down to write a dating profile and you have NO idea what to write. You REALLY want to write one up but NOTHING is coming to mind.

Well, why not use a profile someone else wrote?

Wouldn’t it be a whole lot easier to just rip off some other guy’s profile and use it as your own?

No, not a good idea!

It’s never good to copy another guy’s profile word for word and post it under your name.

There are several reasons for that. One being is it won’t make any sense. When a woman reads your profile she is already starting to figure out what kind of person you are. Now, after she responds to you, she is expecting the same guy she read about to respond back to her.

If she sees someone else respond, it’s pretty much game over.

It has to do with congruency. Everything in the online dating process needs to be congruent from your profile, pictures, and emails, all the way to who you are in person. If anything is off, you’re going to have a hard time finding a high quality woman online.

It is OK to use sample profiles but NOT for copying. They are to be used for modeling. You want to model success not copy it.

So, next time you write a profile, keep that in mind.

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If you found this article helpful, then you REALLY need to check out my TOP SECRET Online Dating Profile.  My email inbox was literally FLOODED with emails within MINUTES after posting this profile!

Click here to see it RIGHT NOW!

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