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More On Writing Dating Profiles

Let me ask you…

Are you STRUGGLING at meeting women online?

You are?

Well, guess what?

You aren’t alone.

The fact is, MOST men fail at online dating and quit within WEEKS after posting their first online dating profile.

Well, why is that?

Are all women on Internet dating sites that mean? Do they just NOT like men at all?

No, obviously that isn’t the case! After all, we all know some guys that are having a LOT of success with online dating. You’ve heard about them… right?

“Dude!!! I’m getting laid left and right from women I met on Match.com. What’s your problem??? It’s so easy!”

Well, one of two things is going on there. Either these guys are lying, or they know something the rest don’t. Maybe they searched the net for dating profile examples for men, and found the “perfect dating ad.” Maybe they all look like Brad Pitt.

Well, I’m here to tell you that when it comes to having success with meeting women online, you HAVE to have TWO things right. Screw up either one of them, and you will NOT be meeting ANY women!

The first is your dating profile. This needs to be solid. It needs to really show your personality! The days of laundry lists and facts are LONG GONE! (In fact, I’m not sure these kinds of dating profiles were ever successful.) Women are drawn to EMOTIONS, and in particular mystery and intrigue.

Why do you think romance novels are so popular? Women can’t buy them up fast enough because they CAN’T resist them!

So, making your profile convey a sense of mystery is paramount and you MUST learn how to do it right.

No…copying dating profile examples for men off the internet is NOT going to cut it. Women want to meet YOU, not some guy you are pretending to be.

The next thing you want to do is convey a sense of confidence. Use assertive, commanding language in your profile, BUT don’t overdo it.

Confidence is sexy, cockiness is a turn off!

Finally, show some humor! Online dating should NOT be serious. Show her you have a clever sense of humor. It’s always great to end your profile by poking fun at other guys on internet dating sites.

So, now you know how to write an eye-catching, compelling online dating profile. That’s the all important FIRST step to online dating success.

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Profile of a VERY frustrated and Angry Woman.

WOW, I just came across a profile from a woman on POF that deserves a mention!

It’s actually a woman I wrote previously, but she hadn’t yet responded. I checked out her profile again recently and she had changed her write up a bit… Sit back, relax and enjoy:

“Because everything I write seems to offend you guys, I just erased my entire profile.

First off,  you can’t say things like “looking for a beautiful, smart, honest woman”, when you are 1.ugly as hell,2. dumb as hell, and 3.a freakin liar..It’s like who do guys think you are?

Oh yeah..and being broke is pretty bad too. Guys, look at who you are looking at before you send some common ass message randomly to any pretty girl..uhhh yea..desperate..You don’t have the right to just email any girl that you gotta know is out of your league.

You have to know…and if you don’t, then you are either dreaming or..let me re-iterate “STUPID”. What the hell are you thinking? I’m saying this because I have 83 new messages and they are all DORKS! Jesus..and if you think this is offensive..then you are not the guy for me..if you think I am approachable..you’re on my level and we can see about something.

Confidence is GREAT! But some of you are just plain stupid. Oh yea, it’s also pretty lame to try and get at a girl and when she denies you, you talk shit, like “you’re not all that” and what was it one guy said to me “you’re ugly anyway with your bushy ass eyebrows” LMFAO…losers.

I’m really not trying to talk shit, but RECOGNIZE…if you are sending me a message, check yourself and don’t waste my time. I might sound stuck up, but that’s not it…just sick of being hit on by idiots everywhere I go..If you know you are NOT an idiot, send me a message…

I’m really, a sweet girl. I mean c’mon guys, wouldn’t you get sick of nasty, low class, broke ass broads with 3 kids hitting you up? But, I guess what can you expect from this lame ass site.

Now, sorry for that but I think I’m gonna delete this anyway. I can just tell you a little about me and try and keep an open mind.

My name is Angrygirl, I’m 29 and live in Angry Town, USA. I can say that I am well rounded, smart, caring, loyal and honest, not to mention confident and very independent. I am not sure that I am necessarily looking for anything, but instead, just sitting back and maybe seeing if unexpectedly I will be pleasantly surprised by someone who fits my standards.

Yes, I have standards and I don’t think I’m asking too much, but I’m not going to list them, because, like I said, I try to keep an open mind. I can take care of myself and am definitely not wanting someone to, by any means, try and do that for me; just someone who will be honest and always have my back to the fullest and I promise I got yours too! Hit me up if you have any questions, or anything to say other than “hey sexy”..it gets old.”

Thanks

Ok, now I’m not going to bash this poor woman, because God knows, she’s been through enough in her life.

The reason I’m showcasing this profile is that I want to illustrate a few points.

1)  “I’m saying this because I have 83 new messages and they are all DORKS!” (I’ve always said… women get TONS of messages from guys everyday, and it’s pretty evident what kind of messages she’s getting.  Most guys write LAME, terrible messages to women, and this is why they aren’t seeing any positive results with online dating.)

2)  “You don’t have the right to just email any girl that you gotta know is out of your league.” (As you know, there are NO women who are “out of your league.”  That is something fabricated in your head and you can’t let it become a permanent belief.  She considers guys with certain “looks” out of her league, but actually, she’s referring to something far more important.  Which leads to…)

3)  “Confidence is GREAT! But some of you are just plain stupid. Jesus..and if you think this is offensive..then you are not the guy for me..if you think I am approachable..you’re on my level and we can see about something.”

( Very interesting!!  What is she saying here?  Basically, she’s saying she wants a MAN.  I’ve never seen a woman illustrate this point quite this way, but it’s very telling.  Confidence is always sexy to women and she considers a guy who can take her crap.. as more of a man.  And that guys who see her as “approachable” are “on her level.”  Meaning, if you have the balls to approach her, then you are exactly what she needs in that moment.)

Ok, so lets wrap up this little lesson.

As far as this woman goes and her issues, I’m going to take the high road here.  Obviously, she has a lot of problems with maturity and other issues.  And don’t get me wrong, this is NOT a woman I’d want to date.

But, if we put that aside, we can see that a Confident man is always what women seek.  We also see that the competition out there is very weak and if you write emails using the strategies I teach, you will stand out from the crowd.

Finally, don’t ever EVER take online dating too seriously or become “Angry Guy.” It’s just not worth it and you are showing women that you aren’t a real man.

Hope you got something out of this.  I’ll be in touch soon!

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