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There is TONS of new articles, videos and online dating tips to discover there!

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Brutal Honesty!

Don’t you often wish that at the conclusion of a date, when you’re chatting with her on your porch, you could just be brutally honest?  Well, this video demonstrates just that and is the most hilarious thing I’ve ever seen!

Warning:  Don’t watch it if you don’t like graphic “Adult” language.

Check out this video!

 

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Taming “Needy” Behaviors.

You know I often talk about how important it is to avoid needy behavior when dealing with women online.  Well, here’s a letter from a subscriber that illustrates what can happen when you come on too strong:

Christophe,

I gotta problem. I met a woman a couple of weeks ago, and what a woman! She is just amazing and I cant get her out of my head. We have only met twice so far but spend over an hour on the phone very night. The first date was dinner at the yacht club and the 2nd we spent most of the night on the beach talking and drinking champagne. Sounds pretty good eh! So what’s the problem? Well, her ex really screwed her up. She’s not given me all the details yet but the result is that she has major trust issues and she shares she has ‘lost’ herself and does not know who she is or what she wants out of life anymore. She says she sees me as a great friend but does not know if she wants another relationship. Her last relationship was a marriage of about 20 years. I know it crazy but I think she is the one! How do I get her to break through her current negativity and realize that not all men will damage her in the way that her ex has.

My head is telling to give this woman a wide berth and look elsewhere but I just can’t because I would wonder what might have been if I stuck it out.

CY Australia

(My Response)

Hey,

Ok, first of all… SLOW DOWN!

You need to take a deep breath here and give her some room to think.  I see two big problems here that stand out:

“but spend over an hour on the phone very night.”

It’s great that you two have a solid connection and that things seem to be going well, but you don’t want to be spending hours on the phone every night.

Are you familiar with attraction theory?  Things like giving her the gift of missing you and avoiding neediness?  When you come on too strong and suffocate women, it can lead to this…

“She says she sees me as a great friend but does not know if she wants another relationship.”

Bingo!  That tells you something right there.  She will rationalize it in her mind that she’s “not ready” to move onto someone else and her past relationship does factor in, but; you still need to do things right when it comes to building attraction.

Here’s what you should do… no contact for three days!  I mean no phone calls, texts, nothing!  See what happens.  I’m betting she will come to you.

Try and be patient and take things more slowly.  Let her know that you are still dating other women, which is what you should be doing anyway.

If she is “the one.”  You’ll know soon enough.

Christophe

Remember, any time you display needy behavior, it lowers your value and a woman will thus become less attracted to you.

So what’s the answer??  Don’t do it!!  Always raise your perceived value in her eyes.  That’s the key to becoming successful with Online Dating.

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Two For One Special!

Well, it’s that time of year again!

I know, it always comes up so quickly!

It’s the end of the year, which for most around the world means Holidays and New Year’s festivities.  I also like to take this time every year to send a message to my valuable subscribers… and that would be you!

I’ll make it brief this time.

It’s been a pretty good year for myself and I hope it’s been great for you as well and you’re still meeting plenty of women online.

If you haven’t been putting all your efforts into Online Dating, now is definitely the time to do so.  There are more women than ever joining Online Dating sites EVERY single day and I continue to be amazed at just how many there really are.

Sites like Match, POF, eHarmony, and OkCupid are still going strong!  And if you’ve been using my material, I’m sure you’re starting to realize just how powerful it can be when using these sites to meet women online.

As you know, I’m currently working on a new Online Dating Video Course and the feedback I recently received from my subscribers has been incredible to say the least!  I really appreciate it!  Some of you are struggling with things I really hadn’t considered.

Well don’t worry… we’re going to put an END to those frustrations when I get this course done.  You can count on it!  Look for it to be released in a few months.

As for now, I’d like to offer you a nice little bonus.

From now until the end of this month you can get both my ebooks;  “Internet Dating Mastery” AND “101 Eye-catching Email Subject Lines for Online Dating” for the price of one!!

That’s right, get both books for just $27!!

It’s my gift to you for being a valuable subscriber and for helping me keep this little passion of mine going so strong!

So, just click the link below to claim your bundle:

http://www.internetdatingtipsformen.com

I hope you enjoy them.

Happy Holidays to you and we’ll talk soon!

Christophe

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Internet Dating Tips From Women

Hey,

I just ran across an article that’s called, “The Ten Commandments of Online Dating.”  Now, I normally don’t pay much attention to Online Dating advice written by women FOR guys, but this article was rather interesting.

Check it out here:  Online Dating Article

Ok, I know, not really earth shattering… BUT let’s do a little recap anyway, just for fun!

1)  Thou shall not act too cool to care.  Well, actually acting like you really aren’t into someone can work in your favor.  As you know, nothing can kill your chances faster than being too needy when trying to meet women online.  But, you need to show interest initially otherwise she won’t know you exist.  But save the “too cool for school” act for when she’s already attracted to you.

2)  Thou shall not search online for a new mate until the present mate is out of the picture.  This one is obvious.  Be sure and have your head together before going to meet women online.  I talk more about this in Chapter 1 of my ebook Internet Dating Mastery.

3)  Thou shall not be long winded.  This one is very interesting.  Note that she says being brief and to the point shows confidence!  Well, we know how important confidence is when attracting women.  Now you know why so many guys tell you to keep those emails brief and to the point!

4)  Thou shall not forget to use the spell checker.  Obviously you want to use good spelling.  Nothing to add here.

5)  Thou shall not act Creepy McCreepy.  Yes, don’t act creepy when meeting online.  If you follow my advice, you shouldn’t have ANY problems in this area.

6)  Thou shall not pick a dumb username.   Now, when it comes to usernames; you just need to avoid LAME ones.  There is no super secret username that’s going to make her want to jump you.  They don’t exist.  So don’t spend too much time trying to come up with one.  BUT, don’t use BAD ones.

7)  Thou shall not e- lie.  Don’t lie about your age or height in your profiles.  OK, add one inch to your height but THAT’s IT!  Remember, the goal is to meet her in person as soon as possible.  What are you going to do when you meet her and she sees you’re 10 yrs older than the thought?  Not good!

8)  Thou shall not be late on the first date.  Being late is OK, but not too late.  Don’t be early.  But, don’t fret about this one.

9)  Thou shall not act Creepy McCreepy.  See above.

10)  Thou shall not pretend you fell off the face of the earth.  I actually totally agree with this one.  If you aren’t feeling it, let her know.  You don’t want to waste her time or yours.

OK, I hope you found this recap informative and entertaining.  If you want to learn more about meeting women online, check out this free preview of my book here.  What do you think about this article?  Let me know in the comments below.

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Preview My Book For Free!

So, I just released a little Free Preview of my ebook Internet Dating Mastery.  It’s a 30 page PDF book that shows you what’s inside my most popular ebook.  There are even some free chapters where I may have revealed just a little too much 😉

Anyway, to take a sneak peak at my ebook just click the link below:

Internet Dating Mastery – Free Preview

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Poor Results With E-Harmony Cont…

So, I was mentioning before how I really think the Online Dating Site, E-Harmony basically SUCKS!

I talked about how you have to answer a gazillion BORING questions during the sign up process.  Also, they put up all sorts of cumbersome roadblocks on the way to actual communication!

You’ll find that women who don’t quite interest you will send you a list of questions during the “Guided Communication” phase.  Kind of STUPID as the idea is to get to emailing and in person dates as quickly as possible.

Now, the MAJOR flaw with E-Harmony… the so called “key dimensions of personality” matching system!

I find it hard to believe that with all the so called “science” behind this site, that what they came up with is essentially a process of matching guys with women with similar personalities to them.

As you know, I believe in dating a woman who is your opposite in personality type because it adds more spark to the relationship, and it assures that a couple will complement each other nicely.

What I got was a TON of matches who were WAY TO MUCH like me!  I would often log in to see nothing but attorneys, accountants, managers and other typical “Left-brainers” in my matches list.

And this was not what I wanted at all!

I like the outgoing, spontaneous artistic types and I was not getting matched with them!!

SUCKS!  And this is what I paid $50 per month for??  Not good!

I’ll talk about some more EH flaws in another post.

How about you?  What was your opinion of your E-Harmony matches?

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Poor Results With E-Harmony!

So I mentioned in a previous post that I had started using the Online Dating site; E-Harmony to meet women online.

I’m sure you’ve seen their ads and commercials all over the place with claims of people getting married and living happily ever after… all because they met on E-Harmony.

Well, I’m sure some have met through that site but I really doubt the legitimacy of a lot of those claims.

The problem is all the roadblocks this site puts up on the way to real, genuine online communication.

For starters, you have to answer HUNDREDS of questions before you even get your profile up!  This is the famed “key dimensions of personality” that are supposed to match you up with your “Perfect” match.  Well, if you have the patience to get through ALL THAT, then you’ve done pretty good.

Then, the confusion only grows as you try to email one of your “matches.”  You have to send your match a set of questions for them to answer.

This is rather ridiculous as the point of Online Dating is to start emailing as SOON AS POSSIBLE and then takes things OFFLINE soon after that.   But, I would later find out that you CAN actually email women immediately, but it’s not really clear on HOW to do this.

The problems with this website only get worse from there and I’ll continue with my thoughts in another post.

How about you???  If you’ve used E-Harmony, how has your experience been?

BTW, if you found this article helpful, then you REALLY need to check out my TOP SECRET Online Dating Profile.  My email inbox was literally FLOODED with emails within MINUTES after posting this profile!

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Do NOT Use This Subject Line…

So, I was bantering back and forth with a woman I met on Plenty Of Fish and I do what I usually do in a second email and ask her how it’s been going on POF.  She responds that she’s been getting A LOT of “Hey Sexy” emails from guys that obviously have not even read her profile.

Read that again!!   Guys who have “not even read her profile.”

Ok, there are two things wrong here and I think you know what I’m taking about.

First, I’ve said it many times before and I’ll keep saying it until I’m BLUE in the face, do NOT use lame subject lines when emailing women online!!  And yes, “Hey Sexy” is a very LAME email subject line!  There are numerous ways to get a woman’s attention and using really bad, unoriginal subject lines is NEVER the right way to do it.

Secondly, make SURE you always mention something about her profile when emailing her.  This lets her know that you read her profile!!  The days of sending out cut and paste emails to every HOT woman you can find are long gone!  She’ll sniff it out a mile away… So, don’t even think about it.

Anyway, I then responded to this woman saying how AWESOME and original the “Hey Sexy” subject line is and why didn’t I think of that one before… Obvious SARCASM!  She laughs and now we have a meet up this weekend!

So remember, email subject lines are crucial, if not the MOST important component of your emails.  So be sure you get them right!

Want to see a complete list of Email Subject Lines I use to meet women online???

Click Here To See It Right Now

That’s all for now.  I’ll talk to you soon.

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My New Ebook Is Here!

The time has come…

And I just wanted to let you in on some exciting news!

In recent months, I’ve had a lot of guys email me wanting to know why their emails aren’t getting read and responded to when emailing women online.

As you know, this can be a BIG challenge with most men and it’s one I wanted to address specifically.

When I first started out with Online Dating years ago, I had the same exact problem. I would send out TONS of emails daily, and then wonder why I wasn’t getting any responses.

It was VERY frustrating having to see, “Unread Deleted” when I went to check the “read notification” list on any Online Dating Site.

I knew I had to get to the root of the problem!

Well, I would later find out that my emails were NOT GETTING READ in the first place!!

(Believe me, it took a lot of testing and thinking and MORE testing to figure out exactly what was going wrong.)

So after many months, I determined that it was my Email Subject Lines that were NOT doing the job of getting a woman’s attention immediately!

That makes sense because as you know, women are getting bombarded with 50 to 100 emails daily from guys all desperately vying for her time. And if a woman doesn’t see an email that compels her to open it, then she’ll miss it and move on to one that does.

So, the key here is to make sure you use Email Subject Lines that STAND OUT and force her to respond!

Well, I’m proud to say I’ve solved this problem by coming up with a HUGE list of my very BEST email subject lines. I’ve been using them for YEARS to meet Beautiful Women Online and now I’ve decided to share them with you!

I have to admit, I’m a little nervous at the thought of revealing my sneaky little weapons, but I want you to have the success that I currently enjoy with Online Dating.

And the only way to do that is to share with you what works and what works consistently, ALL THE TIME!

So here’s the deal…

I just finished up my brand new ebook called:  “101 Eye-Catching Email Subject Lines For Online Dating”

In it, I’ve included all of my very best email subject lines and I think you really should check it out.

In fact, I’m currently using a lot of the lines in this book right now to meet women online!  They are, afterall timeless – and you’ll be able to use them whenever you want… even years from now!!!

Alright so… to read more about my new ebook, just go here:

http://www.internetdatingtipsformen.com/101emailsubjectlines.html

I’m VERY excited about it and I hope you will be too!!

It’s been about ten years in the making, and I’m NOT holding anything back!

Here’s the link again:

http://www.internetdatingtipsformen.com/101emailsubjectlines.html

Check it out and I hope you enjoy it!

I’ll talk to you soon,

Christophe

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Happy Holidays And A Gift For You!

It’s that time of year again!!

Well, it’s actually my FAVORITE time of year! I always look forward to the end of the year because it means Holidays, great sports on TV, good food, and New Years Festivities!

Ever since I started giving Online Dating advice to guys, I made a commtiment to sending out my annual “Happy Holidays” message to both share some thoughts on what’s going on now, and also what’s coming up next year.

I get a TON of satisfaction out of helping guys who are struggling with the very thing that I struggled with for years…

MEETING WOMEN ONLINE.

And I just want you to know that I continue to be 100% totally committed to bettering myself and my products to accomplish that goal.  This year has been no different. In fact, I’ve spent the last few months putting the finishing touches on my brand NEW ebook.  I’m VERY excited about it and I think you will be too!

The title is going to be:

“101 Eye-catching Email Subject Lines For Online Dating”

It’s going to have my FULL ARSENAL of email subject lines I’ve used over the years to meet women online.  I won’t be holding ANYTHING back! This book is literally going to put emailing women on autopilot!  So, expect a launch some time next month.

And that’s not all…

I also have a full blown Online Dating course due out later next year so there will be plenty of excitement in the near future!!  Now, with it being the Holidays and all, I decided to send out a little gift.

From NOW until the end of this year, I’m selling my main ebook “Internet Dating Mastery” at a discounted price!  So, if you’ve been on the fence on whether or not to make a purchase, now is the time because this discount will not last forever!

In order to get it, just go here:

http://www.internetdatingtipsformen.com

Remember, this sale is only going to last until the end of this year, that’s December 31st, so make sure you take full advantage of it!

http://www.internetdatingtipsformen.com

That’s all for now.

Happy Holidays, and I’ll talk to you soon!

Christophe

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Holiday Internet Dating Tips

Here we are approaching the end of the year… again!

Oh, how time flies when you’re busy…

Especially when you are dating plenty of attractive women online.

Recently, I have been meeting my fair share of women online, but it took a while for me to get to this point.

You see, about six months ago I broke up with my Girlfriend of two years.  It wasn’t an easy decision and these kinds of decisions are always tough to make.  It was a relationship that just wasn’t working so something had to be done.

Anyway, it took me a few months before I was ready to date online again.  BTW, I always recommend taking a little break after a serious relationship to “clear your head.”

I know some guys like to get right back out there to try and forget about “her”, but I always found it hard to do that.  One thing’s for sure is that you will NOT be in the right frame of mind if you try and date other women while still hung up on an ex!!  So, just make sure you take that into consideration.

So, as I said, we are approaching the end of the year and here in the US, that means lots and lots of HOLIDAYS!

Not a good time of year to try online dating… you say??

Well, think again!

It’s a great time to get out there and attack those online dating sites!  Think about it.  Women do NOT like to be alone during the holidays.  So, where do you think they’re going to meet guys??

Internet Dating Sites, of course!

If you haven’t gone online and sent out emails lately, then WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR??  Now is the time to take advantage of this situation.

In fact, I’m going to give you a very effective email subject line to use RIGHT NOW!  You know how I like to use compelling and eye-catching subject lines and this one works like a charm.  In fact, my new ebook is going to be ALL ABOUT catchy email subject lines so be sure and keep a look out for it!

So, try this…  Send an email with the following subject line…

“A Friendly Holiday Warning…”

Then, go on to warn her about something that might happen as a direct result of the Holidays.  You have to be clever here.  Be sure and make it HUMOROUS.  Maybe mention more lame guys who might be emailing her and in order to avoid them, she’d better get hitched up with you.

Think about it and see what you come up with.

Now, go online and start sending out those emails!  And be sure and let me know how it goes.

Happy Holidays!

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Is She Looking For A One Night Stand?

I was just skimming some profiles with attractive women on the site, “PlentyOffish” and I come across a woman with some bathing suit pics.  She was rather HOT.  I then go down to read her profile and I just KNEW it was coming…

It never ceases to amaze me how often I see it in these kinds of profiles.

What is it you ask?

It’s this line:

“Also, if your looking for a one night stand PLEASE don’t bother communicating with me. If I wanted a one night stand I could hit the local bar, and skip the messaging process!!”

What is it with women who post sexy pictures of them in bathing suits or skimpy clothing, and then declaring to the world that they’re “NOT LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND?”

Well, STOP POSTING SEXY PICS and you won’t get so many messages from guys looking for one night stands!  Geez!

If you’ve read my book, “Internet Dating Mastery” you already know the SECRET clues in a woman’s profile that will tell you if she’s looking for such a relationship.  Posting revealing pics is only part of the “picture.”

There’s more to it which I won’t go into here.  I just find it funny that I always see this OVER and OVER again!

So, back to browsing profiles.  I’ll let you in on a few more secrets a little later.

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How To Respond To Winks

Ok, a lot of dating sites have a feature where you can “wink” or send some sort of ice breaker to a woman.

Now, I’ve said it before and I’m going to say it again…. DO NOT SEND WINKS TO WOMEN!

Why?

Because it shows you have NO balls!  Women complain all the time about guys sending them winks and don’t have the balls to send a message!  Not good… because this shows a lack of confidence.  And you know how women feel about guys who aren’t confident!

But, what if a woman sends YOU a wink??  What do you do?

Well, I have a little line I like to send back that works GREAT for me!  If I get a wink from an attractive woman, I like to send the following message back to her:

“Hey, was that you winking at me from across the room?  Why don’t you come over and introduce yourself! C’mon, don’t be shy!”

See how that works?  It’s short, blunt and puts it back on her to come over and “introduce herself.”

Try it out and let me know how it works!  I think you’ll be surprised!

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More On Writing Dating Profiles

Let me ask you…

Are you STRUGGLING at meeting women online?

You are?

Well, guess what?

You aren’t alone.

The fact is, MOST men fail at online dating and quit within WEEKS after posting their first online dating profile.

Well, why is that?

Are all women on Internet dating sites that mean? Do they just NOT like men at all?

No, obviously that isn’t the case! After all, we all know some guys that are having a LOT of success with online dating. You’ve heard about them… right?

“Dude!!! I’m getting laid left and right from women I met on Match.com. What’s your problem??? It’s so easy!”

Well, one of two things is going on there. Either these guys are lying, or they know something the rest don’t. Maybe they searched the net for dating profile examples for men, and found the “perfect dating ad.” Maybe they all look like Brad Pitt.

Well, I’m here to tell you that when it comes to having success with meeting women online, you HAVE to have TWO things right. Screw up either one of them, and you will NOT be meeting ANY women!

The first is your dating profile. This needs to be solid. It needs to really show your personality! The days of laundry lists and facts are LONG GONE! (In fact, I’m not sure these kinds of dating profiles were ever successful.) Women are drawn to EMOTIONS, and in particular mystery and intrigue.

Why do you think romance novels are so popular? Women can’t buy them up fast enough because they CAN’T resist them!

So, making your profile convey a sense of mystery is paramount and you MUST learn how to do it right.

No…copying dating profile examples for men off the internet is NOT going to cut it. Women want to meet YOU, not some guy you are pretending to be.

The next thing you want to do is convey a sense of confidence. Use assertive, commanding language in your profile, BUT don’t overdo it.

Confidence is sexy, cockiness is a turn off!

Finally, show some humor! Online dating should NOT be serious. Show her you have a clever sense of humor. It’s always great to end your profile by poking fun at other guys on internet dating sites.

So, now you know how to write an eye-catching, compelling online dating profile. That’s the all important FIRST step to online dating success.

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If you found this article helpful, then you REALLY need to check out my TOP SECRET Online Dating Profile.  My email inbox was literally FLOODED with emails within MINUTES after posting this profile!

Click here to see it RIGHT NOW!

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The Perfect Time To Meet For A Date

OK, so you’ve finally done it…

You wrote up an awesome online dating profile, sent emails to all the attractive women you can find and you finally found a woman you REALLY Dig! Now, it’s time to make the move…

It’s time to meet her in person!

Now, I’m assuming you did all the right things when emailing her. You built plenty of rapport and got her VERY excited to meet you. This is very important when meeting women online. If you made the mistake of “half-assing” the whole thing, you’ll find yourself with a woman who doesn’t have any desire to meet you. And the inevitable game of phone tag begins…And you never meet her in person.

Now, let’s assume it’s going to happen. During your phone conversation you DID remember to set up a meet… Right? That’s why you are doing online dating! To meet women live and in person.

You don’t want to get caught in a frustrating game of “trying to nail her down.” If that’s what is happening, then chances are you did something wrong in your emails and she doesn’t REALLY want to meet you.

So, to make sure that doesn’t happen, you HAVE to nail down a time and place for that first date at the END of the FIRST phone call. Read that again to make sure it sinks in! DO NOT get stuck doing phone tag. That sucks!

So, when is a good time to meet her? Is there a perfect time and day? Yes, there is. And that time is…as soon as possible!

Do you understand what I’m saying? You want to get her off emails and phone calls and IN PERSON as quickly as you can so you can start having face to face conversations. You don’t want to waste time and neither does she.

What I’m saying is, you need to set up a meet within a few days of that first phone call. I don’t care if it’s on a weekend or not. You may have heard some guys tell you to avoid weekends to give the impression that you are busy and have a life.

This is BAD ADVICE! I know from experience because I used to play those games. And what happened? I ended up screwing myself. If you try to delay things for any reason, you’ll KILL all the momentum you built up in emails and phone calls. It’s SUPER important to keep it going. That’s why you want to meet up as quickly as possible. You’re a man and you take the lead on things. You call the shots and you get things moving! This is how you want to do it. Trust me!

So, next time you meet a woman off the internet, take it offline as SOON as possible!

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If you found this article helpful, then you REALLY need to check out my TOP SECRET Online Dating Profile.  My email inbox was literally FLOODED with emails within MINUTES after posting this profile!

Click here to see it RIGHT NOW!

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How To Find Your Type Online

Have you ever been on a date with a woman you met online and you just didn’t “feel it?”

I know I have. In fact, when I was first starting out with online dating I was getting increasingly frustrated at my inability to meet one of the “good ones.” I would go on date after date with VERY attractive women only to ultimately fail at making a true, lasting connection with most of them.

Well, I knew something had to change. Was it me? Was I just not compatible with any women? No, that couldn’t be the case! After all, I had been in relationships with women before and things worked just fine. So why is it so HARD to meet the right woman from the Internet?

Well, that’s when it hit me like a ton of bricks… Screening!! I’m not screening correctly. In other words, I’m not really seeing a woman for who she is in her profile. If I’m not seeing what she’s really about before meeting her, then chances are, we’ll have a hard time making a connection in person. I need to screen women based on their profiles before I email them. Then my results will improve!

So, I had to take a long look at myself and figure out whom I really want. What are the qualities I most admire in a woman? Was there anyone I dated in the past where things really clicked? What was she like?

Well, based on my experiences, I was able to come up with a woman who is JUST my type. She has to be attractive with dark features. OK, that’s the physical stuff but there needs to be something deeper. She needs to have a certain personality type that’s different from mine. She must be my opposite.

Wow, that’s it!! All the women I’ve ever dated have been my opposite in personality type. Doesn’t really make sense but that’s when things worked out the best. I’m more of a quiet, analytical kind of guy. Well, I’m an engineer so that makes sense. Most of the women I’ve dated who I really liked were more outgoing and spontaneous. I always like a woman with a sense of adventure and creative flair. Well, then that is exactly what I need to be looking for online!

After I realized it was more about personality than anything else, I learned how to screen women in the correct way. Here I was focusing on trivial things like common interests and hobbies, when those things really didn’t matter at all.

Ever gone on a date with a woman who was JUST LIKE YOU. You thought she was your soul mate because she also loved sports, Volkswagens and rock climbing but it still didn’t work out??

Well, here’s why. She wasn’t your opposite in personality type. Opposites compliment each other and that’s why they get along so well.

So, next time you go online looking for HOT babes, you need to put things like hobbies and common interests on the back burner. Unfortunately, most Internet dating sites use these things to match people, which is totally wrong. Instead, really look at her profile and determine her personality. It’s not as tough as you think. Look at her writing style. Look at her pictures. If you look closely enough you will finally “see” her.

Once you become good at screening for your type, you’ll become a true Internet dating master in no time!

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The Secret To Attracting Women Online

Let me ask you…

Are you STRUGGLING at meeting women online?

You are?

Well, guess what?  You aren’t alone.  The fact is, MOST men fail at online dating and quit within WEEKS after posting their first online dating profile.

Well, why is that?  Are all women on Internet dating sites that mean?  Do they just NOT like men at all?

No, obviously that isn’t the case!  After all, we all know some guys that are having a LOT of success with online dating.  You’ve heard about them… right?

Dude!!!  I’m getting laid left and right from women I met on Match.com.  What’s your problem???  It’s so easy!

Well, one of two things is going on there.  Either these guys are lying, or they know something the rest don’t.  Maybe they searched the net for dating profile examples for men, and found the “perfect dating ad.”

Maybe they all look like Brad Pitt.

Well, I’m here to tell you that when it comes to having success with meeting women online, you HAVE to have TWO things right.  Screw up either one of them and you will NOT be meeting ANY women!

The first is your dating profile.  This needs to be solid.  It needs to really show your personality.  The days of laundry lists and facts are LONG GONE!  (In fact, I’m not sure these kinds of dating profiles were ever successful.)

Women are drawn to EMOTIONS and in particular mystery and intrigue.

Why do you think romance novels are so popular?  Women can’t buy them up fast enough because they CAN’T resist them.

So, making your profile convey a sense of mystery is paramount and you MUST learn how to do it right.  No, copying dating profile examples for men off the internet is NOT going to cut it.  Women want to meet YOU, not some guy you are pretending to be.

The next thing you want to do is convey a sense of confidence.  Use assertive, commanding language in your profile, BUT don’t overdo it.  Confidence is sexy, cockiness is a turn off!

Finally, show some humor!  Online dating should NOT be serious.  Show her you have a clever sense of humor.  It’s always great to end your profile by poking fun at other guys on internet dating sites.

So, now you know how to write an eye-catching, compelling online dating profile.  That’s the all important FIRST step to online dating success.

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How To Write A Killer Online Dating Profile

Let me ask you…

Are You Frustrated with online dating?

If you’re like most guys, you are.  You’re tired of not meeting ATTRACTIVE women from online dating sites.

I mean, who wants to pay $30 a month with no results?  Right?

Believe me, I know how frustrating it can be… I’ve been there and I struggled with it for years.  I thought I would NEVER be able to meet the woman of my dreams online.

When I first started online dating, women were ignoring ALL my profiles and emails.  In fact, I would often send out 10 to 20 emails A DAY and get NO responses.  It was crazy!  And I wasn’t exactly the kind of guy to go out and approach hot women in bars and clubs so online dating was my only option at the time.

Well, one day everything turned around for me.  After lots of painful trial and error, I realized that I was making the SAME mistakes over and over again.  And once I stopped making these mistakes, I was meeting women left and right.  In fact, I actually had to STOP sending out emails because my plate was full.  That’s how dramatically things changed for me!

As it turns out, most guys are still making these mistakes and they don’t even know it.  It’s no wonder most guys give up within a MONTH after signing up to online dating sites.

What are these mistakes?

1)       First, they write bland/boring dating profiles.  Their profiles just don’t stand out.  They aren’t using compelling headlines and they aren’t showing any emotion!  They just list facts and the end result is a stale, boring profile with NO excitement.

2)      Second, they don’t know how to email women in a way that GETS THEIR ATTENTION.  Again, their subject lines don’t stand out and they don’t get how to communicate the Secret Language that women respond to.  If you don’t know how to email women the right way, you WON’T succeed at online dating.

3)      Third, they don’t know how to respond to women who email THEM first.  This is also critical!  Most guys get all excited and totally screw it up.  When women email you, it’s a totally different dynamic and you HAVE to know how to handle it.

So, those are the three main online dating mistakes.

Now, how do you write a dating profile that compels women to respond???

Well, first let’s look at how NOT to write a dating profile.  When I first got into online dating, I wrote up a profile that I’m not really proud of.  In fact, it’s downright embarrassing.  But, I need to show it to you so you’ll understand.  Just promise me you won’t laugh… OK?

Ok, here it is:

Subject:  “Nice Guy Here!!”

Body:  “Hello out there!  Well, I just joined this site and I’m not too sure what to write but here goes.  I’m just a simple guy.  I like hanging out with my friends and traveling to cool places.  I’ve found that it’s so hard to meet women in my area so I thought I’d try online dating.  Anyway, it’s always so hard to write stuff about myself so if you like what you see, maybe we can go out on a date sometime.

(Please I’m not very confident and NEED your approval.  Will you love me??)”

Ok, I didn’t really include that last line, but I might as well have.  So, there it is.  Painful, I know…

That was my first really lame attempt at writing a dating profile.

So, what’s wrong with this profile?  Well, first of all it looks like it’s coming from a kid and not a man.  There’s no real confidence there and no humor, at least not intentional.  It’s like I’m trying to seek her approval in every line.  I’m unsure about myself, I’m uncomfortable in my own skin, basically I’m just a total wuss.  That’s NOT attractive to women.

Ok, so how do you do it right?

Well, I’ve come up with what I call my Secret Formula for writing dating profiles.  It’s a formula I’ve been using for years and it NEVER fails me.

1)      First, you must start off humorous.  Get her emotions going right off the bat.  This does two things; it gets her attention right away AND it makes her want to read more.

2)      Second, you need to convey your confidence.  Use strong, assertive language as you state who you are and what you want making NO apologies for either.  This will be in the middle part of your profile.

3)      Finally, you finish off with more humor.  This gets her laughing again and you get out on a high note.  Always good for showmanship. You do this by telling a brief funny story or my favorite, make fun of other guys on the site.  I might write something like:  “Believe me you want nothing to do with the guy below me, he still lives with his Mother.”   Or something like that.

So, that is my Secret Formula for writing dating profiles.

Now, get out there and write your own dating profile using this formula.  I guarantee you’ll start seeing results FAST!

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Interesting Online Dating Article

So, I was browsing online dating articles and came across a very interesting one called, “Online dating sites are a treasure trove for scientists.”

Check it out here:

Online Dating Article

Some highlights:

“Men most often make the first move, sending that first “wink” or e-mail. They’re also more likely to respond to women’s queries and quicker to write back. Women are more choosy; in one study, they responded to only 16 percent of messages. And they take longer to respond.”

(This is why your emails must STAND OUT and get attention! This study claims women respond to only 16% of messages. With those odds, you had better get noticed!)

“Appearance matters. Men say a photograph is the dominant predictor of whether they’ll connect. Women like photographs but also value the self-descriptive narrative in profiles.

(Of course men choose women based on photos, we’re MEN! But… women aren’t as focused on appearances, it’s more about your profile! This is why it’s important to craft a clever, compelling dating profile like the ones I provide in my Ebook; “Internet Dating Mastery.”)

“What’s attractive? Men who look “genuine,” “extroverted” but not “overly warm or kind;” women who look “feminine, “high in self-esteem” and “not selfish.”

(I always recommend including photos of yourself out with friends, as it will make you look more “extroverted.” Now why would women NOT want guys to look “overly warm or kind?” Women may see that as appearing desperate, or not being very confident. It’s crucial that you don’t make these mistakes.)

Anyway, good read. Check it out.

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