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Poor Results With E-Harmony Cont…

So, I was mentioning before how I really think the Online Dating Site, E-Harmony basically SUCKS!

I talked about how you have to answer a gazillion BORING questions during the sign up process.  Also, they put up all sorts of cumbersome roadblocks on the way to actual communication!

You’ll find that women who don’t quite interest you will send you a list of questions during the “Guided Communication” phase.  Kind of STUPID as the idea is to get to emailing and in person dates as quickly as possible.

Now, the MAJOR flaw with E-Harmony… the so called “key dimensions of personality” matching system!

I find it hard to believe that with all the so called “science” behind this site, that what they came up with is essentially a process of matching guys with women with similar personalities to them.

As you know, I believe in dating a woman who is your opposite in personality type because it adds more spark to the relationship, and it assures that a couple will complement each other nicely.

What I got was a TON of matches who were WAY TO MUCH like me!  I would often log in to see nothing but attorneys, accountants, managers and other typical “Left-brainers” in my matches list.

And this was not what I wanted at all!

I like the outgoing, spontaneous artistic types and I was not getting matched with them!!

SUCKS!  And this is what I paid $50 per month for??  Not good!

I’ll talk about some more EH flaws in another post.

How about you?  What was your opinion of your E-Harmony matches?

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Poor Results With E-Harmony!

So I mentioned in a previous post that I had started using the Online Dating site; E-Harmony to meet women online.

I’m sure you’ve seen their ads and commercials all over the place with claims of people getting married and living happily ever after… all because they met on E-Harmony.

Well, I’m sure some have met through that site but I really doubt the legitimacy of a lot of those claims.

The problem is all the roadblocks this site puts up on the way to real, genuine online communication.

For starters, you have to answer HUNDREDS of questions before you even get your profile up!  This is the famed “key dimensions of personality” that are supposed to match you up with your “Perfect” match.  Well, if you have the patience to get through ALL THAT, then you’ve done pretty good.

Then, the confusion only grows as you try to email one of your “matches.”  You have to send your match a set of questions for them to answer.

This is rather ridiculous as the point of Online Dating is to start emailing as SOON AS POSSIBLE and then takes things OFFLINE soon after that.   But, I would later find out that you CAN actually email women immediately, but it’s not really clear on HOW to do this.

The problems with this website only get worse from there and I’ll continue with my thoughts in another post.

How about you???  If you’ve used E-Harmony, how has your experience been?

BTW, if you found this article helpful, then you REALLY need to check out my TOP SECRET Online Dating Profile.  My email inbox was literally FLOODED with emails within MINUTES after posting this profile!

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Do NOT Use This Subject Line…

So, I was bantering back and forth with a woman I met on Plenty Of Fish and I do what I usually do in a second email and ask her how it’s been going on POF.  She responds that she’s been getting A LOT of “Hey Sexy” emails from guys that obviously have not even read her profile.

Read that again!!   Guys who have “not even read her profile.”

Ok, there are two things wrong here and I think you know what I’m taking about.

First, I’ve said it many times before and I’ll keep saying it until I’m BLUE in the face, do NOT use lame subject lines when emailing women online!!  And yes, “Hey Sexy” is a very LAME email subject line!  There are numerous ways to get a woman’s attention and using really bad, unoriginal subject lines is NEVER the right way to do it.

Secondly, make SURE you always mention something about her profile when emailing her.  This lets her know that you read her profile!!  The days of sending out cut and paste emails to every HOT woman you can find are long gone!  She’ll sniff it out a mile away… So, don’t even think about it.

Anyway, I then responded to this woman saying how AWESOME and original the “Hey Sexy” subject line is and why didn’t I think of that one before… Obvious SARCASM!  She laughs and now we have a meet up this weekend!

So remember, email subject lines are crucial, if not the MOST important component of your emails.  So be sure you get them right!

Want to see a complete list of Email Subject Lines I use to meet women online???

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That’s all for now.  I’ll talk to you soon.

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My New Ebook Is Here!

The time has come…

And I just wanted to let you in on some exciting news!

In recent months, I’ve had a lot of guys email me wanting to know why their emails aren’t getting read and responded to when emailing women online.

As you know, this can be a BIG challenge with most men and it’s one I wanted to address specifically.

When I first started out with Online Dating years ago, I had the same exact problem. I would send out TONS of emails daily, and then wonder why I wasn’t getting any responses.

It was VERY frustrating having to see, “Unread Deleted” when I went to check the “read notification” list on any Online Dating Site.

I knew I had to get to the root of the problem!

Well, I would later find out that my emails were NOT GETTING READ in the first place!!

(Believe me, it took a lot of testing and thinking and MORE testing to figure out exactly what was going wrong.)

So after many months, I determined that it was my Email Subject Lines that were NOT doing the job of getting a woman’s attention immediately!

That makes sense because as you know, women are getting bombarded with 50 to 100 emails daily from guys all desperately vying for her time. And if a woman doesn’t see an email that compels her to open it, then she’ll miss it and move on to one that does.

So, the key here is to make sure you use Email Subject Lines that STAND OUT and force her to respond!

Well, I’m proud to say I’ve solved this problem by coming up with a HUGE list of my very BEST email subject lines. I’ve been using them for YEARS to meet Beautiful Women Online and now I’ve decided to share them with you!

I have to admit, I’m a little nervous at the thought of revealing my sneaky little weapons, but I want you to have the success that I currently enjoy with Online Dating.

And the only way to do that is to share with you what works and what works consistently, ALL THE TIME!

So here’s the deal…

I just finished up my brand new ebook called:  “101 Eye-Catching Email Subject Lines For Online Dating”

In it, I’ve included all of my very best email subject lines and I think you really should check it out.

In fact, I’m currently using a lot of the lines in this book right now to meet women online!  They are, afterall timeless – and you’ll be able to use them whenever you want… even years from now!!!

Alright so… to read more about my new ebook, just go here:

http://www.internetdatingtipsformen.com/101emailsubjectlines.html

I’m VERY excited about it and I hope you will be too!!

It’s been about ten years in the making, and I’m NOT holding anything back!

Here’s the link again:

http://www.internetdatingtipsformen.com/101emailsubjectlines.html

Check it out and I hope you enjoy it!

I’ll talk to you soon,

Christophe

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Holiday Internet Dating Tips

Here we are approaching the end of the year… again!

Oh, how time flies when you’re busy…

Especially when you are dating plenty of attractive women online.

Recently, I have been meeting my fair share of women online, but it took a while for me to get to this point.

You see, about six months ago I broke up with my Girlfriend of two years.  It wasn’t an easy decision and these kinds of decisions are always tough to make.  It was a relationship that just wasn’t working so something had to be done.

Anyway, it took me a few months before I was ready to date online again.  BTW, I always recommend taking a little break after a serious relationship to “clear your head.”

I know some guys like to get right back out there to try and forget about “her”, but I always found it hard to do that.  One thing’s for sure is that you will NOT be in the right frame of mind if you try and date other women while still hung up on an ex!!  So, just make sure you take that into consideration.

So, as I said, we are approaching the end of the year and here in the US, that means lots and lots of HOLIDAYS!

Not a good time of year to try online dating… you say??

Well, think again!

It’s a great time to get out there and attack those online dating sites!  Think about it.  Women do NOT like to be alone during the holidays.  So, where do you think they’re going to meet guys??

Internet Dating Sites, of course!

If you haven’t gone online and sent out emails lately, then WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR??  Now is the time to take advantage of this situation.

In fact, I’m going to give you a very effective email subject line to use RIGHT NOW!  You know how I like to use compelling and eye-catching subject lines and this one works like a charm.  In fact, my new ebook is going to be ALL ABOUT catchy email subject lines so be sure and keep a look out for it!

So, try this…  Send an email with the following subject line…

“A Friendly Holiday Warning…”

Then, go on to warn her about something that might happen as a direct result of the Holidays.  You have to be clever here.  Be sure and make it HUMOROUS.  Maybe mention more lame guys who might be emailing her and in order to avoid them, she’d better get hitched up with you.

Think about it and see what you come up with.

Now, go online and start sending out those emails!  And be sure and let me know how it goes.

Happy Holidays!

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How To Respond To A Woman’s Internet Dating Profile

So, you see an amazingly HOT woman on Match.com.  She has great photos and a personality to boot!

She has a great sense of humor and a very dynamic personality.  You can tell she’d be a great addition to your already fulfilling life.  She also lives reasonably close to you.

You just HAVE to respond to her!!!

But how?

As you can imagine, she’s probably getting 50 to 60 emails a day from every guy within a 500-mile radius. She opens her inbox to see a barrage of boring emails with subject lines that all looks the same.

“Hey baby! You’re so fine!”

“Hey, nice guy here. I think you’re cute!”

“Oh my GOD! You’re so beautiful! Please respond to this email!”

“Baby, I want to make you my love muffin!”

And the emails get worse and worse. This is the reality of a beautiful woman on an internet dating site.

And this is GREAT news!  Why?

Because, you are going to be the real MAN that stands out and gets her attention. You’ve already seen her profile and now you MUST find a way to get her eyes on YOU.

How do you do that?

It’s simple.

Have a GREAT subject line in your email. If you don’t have a great subject line then your email will NEVER get read. Simple as that. That’s why we have to put good subject lines in our response.

THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF RESPONDING TO ONLINE DATING PROFILES!!!

Now, I like to use subject lines that are ambiguous. Ones that leave her wondering, “What is he talking about?”

Women love a good mystery and nothing is more mysterious then a subject line that has her wondering why you wrote it.  I might write something like:

“Oh my GOD! What are you doing?”

It doesn’t get more mysterious then that! When she sees an email like this in her inbox, you’d better bet that she’s going to open it.

Now, you need to be sure and explain it in your email to her. If you don’t she’ll feel tricked and move on to someone else.  There are many different ways to go here.

I might start off my email like this:

“I mean, here you are sitting there with 50 emails in your inbox and it took you this long to get to mine? I just might forgive you if you’re up for a challenge. “

Then, just continue your email. See how easy that was?

The most important thing is to get her attention right off the bat. Once you do that, you’re in.

So, write down a list of ten creative, eye-catching, and ambiguous subject lines similar to the example above. Then come up with ways to start off an email using each subject line. Once you have your arsenal, you’re ready to respond to all the hot women in your area.

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If you found this article helpful, then you REALLY need to check out my TOP SECRET Online Dating Profile.  My email inbox was literally FLOODED with emails within MINUTES after posting this profile!

Click here to see it RIGHT NOW!

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Great Profile Headlines Online Dating

So, one of my favorite things to do is to go on Craigslist and check out the personals section to see how the guys are doing.

Unfortunately, I usually end up disappointed.

You see, when I go to the “Men seeking Women” section and look at their profile subject lines, I can’t help but shake my head.

Here are several examples taken right off CL.

  • Hey Baby!
  • Hey!
  • Gentlemen seeks a beautiful companion.
  • Chat!
  • SWM seeking soulmate possibilities
  • SWM searching for a close discreet friend.
  • Looking to have some fun.
  • Got a bun in the oven? (What?)
  • Dinner and a Movie?
  • Canvas Converse in the Boardroom.
  • RIGHT HERE.
  • This is who I am! Please help.
  • If you’re petite with a tight little…
  • Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii.
  • mature
  • A Really Nice Guy
  • Looking to Date Again

Good god!!

There are so many things wrong with the above, I wouldn’t know where to start! I’m not even sure what a couple of them mean!

When it comes to getting attention, lots of guys have really gotten creative, and NOT in a good way.

Writing an online profile does NOT have to be difficult. Remember, attractive women on dating sites have plenty of options to choose from so you want a profile headline that’s not only creative, but GET’S ATTENTION! And isn’t creepy and weird.

I like to use ambiguous headlines that generate mystery. You know, a headline that makes her HAVE to know what I’m talking about…

Something like…

“Oh no! I can’t BELIEVE you’re going to do that!”

Now, when a woman is browsing through a list of endless boring profiles, what do you think she’ll do when she sees this subject line? I’m going to bet that she’ll click on it to see what I mean by “that.”

And that’s what you want! Women can’t turn down a mystery….EVER!

So, when you go online and write up a profile, try coming up with a subject line similar to what I have above. And come up with a clever way to start out your profile answering the subject line.

I’m telling you, this gets women to click through EVERY time!!

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If you found this article helpful, then you REALLY need to check out my TOP SECRET Online Dating Profile.  My email inbox was literally FLOODED with emails within MINUTES after posting this profile!

Click here to see it RIGHT NOW!

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This Scares me…

So, what were you thinking when you read that subject line?

I’m going to read your mind and guess that you really needed to see what this post is about.

I mean, if I saw a subject line that read, “This Scares me…”, I’m going to open it up right away!

Well, when I saw this subject line in my email inbox, I came up with a pretty cool idea.

Now, you know I really like coming up with clever subject lines for my online dating emails.

Nothing is more important than getting your emails opened because attractive women get bombarded with emails from guys all the time.

So, how about I use the above subject line in an email!

I can see it now…

Subject:  This Scares me…

Body:  I mean, you are getting flooded with emails from guys that just DON’T get it! And you were about to respond to one of them??  Don’t do it!  Seriously!  Anyway…

There we go.

Just continue on from there.

You can come up with all kinds of clever ways to expand onthat subject line.

Go for it!

And let me know how it goes.

And stay tuned for more Internet Dating Tips.

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