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Is She Looking For A One Night Stand?

I was just skimming some profiles with attractive women on the site, “PlentyOffish” and I come across a woman with some bathing suit pics.  She was rather HOT.  I then go down to read her profile and I just KNEW it was coming…

It never ceases to amaze me how often I see it in these kinds of profiles.

What is it you ask?

It’s this line:

“Also, if your looking for a one night stand PLEASE don’t bother communicating with me. If I wanted a one night stand I could hit the local bar, and skip the messaging process!!”

What is it with women who post sexy pictures of them in bathing suits or skimpy clothing, and then declaring to the world that they’re “NOT LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND?”

Well, STOP POSTING SEXY PICS and you won’t get so many messages from guys looking for one night stands!  Geez!

If you’ve read my book, “Internet Dating Mastery” you already know the SECRET clues in a woman’s profile that will tell you if she’s looking for such a relationship.  Posting revealing pics is only part of the “picture.”

There’s more to it which I won’t go into here.  I just find it funny that I always see this OVER and OVER again!

So, back to browsing profiles.  I’ll let you in on a few more secrets a little later.

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How To Find Your Type Online

Have you ever been on a date with a woman you met online and you just didn’t “feel it?”

I know I have. In fact, when I was first starting out with online dating I was getting increasingly frustrated at my inability to meet one of the “good ones.” I would go on date after date with VERY attractive women only to ultimately fail at making a true, lasting connection with most of them.

Well, I knew something had to change. Was it me? Was I just not compatible with any women? No, that couldn’t be the case! After all, I had been in relationships with women before and things worked just fine. So why is it so HARD to meet the right woman from the Internet?

Well, that’s when it hit me like a ton of bricks… Screening!! I’m not screening correctly. In other words, I’m not really seeing a woman for who she is in her profile. If I’m not seeing what she’s really about before meeting her, then chances are, we’ll have a hard time making a connection in person. I need to screen women based on their profiles before I email them. Then my results will improve!

So, I had to take a long look at myself and figure out whom I really want. What are the qualities I most admire in a woman? Was there anyone I dated in the past where things really clicked? What was she like?

Well, based on my experiences, I was able to come up with a woman who is JUST my type. She has to be attractive with dark features. OK, that’s the physical stuff but there needs to be something deeper. She needs to have a certain personality type that’s different from mine. She must be my opposite.

Wow, that’s it!! All the women I’ve ever dated have been my opposite in personality type. Doesn’t really make sense but that’s when things worked out the best. I’m more of a quiet, analytical kind of guy. Well, I’m an engineer so that makes sense. Most of the women I’ve dated who I really liked were more outgoing and spontaneous. I always like a woman with a sense of adventure and creative flair. Well, then that is exactly what I need to be looking for online!

After I realized it was more about personality than anything else, I learned how to screen women in the correct way. Here I was focusing on trivial things like common interests and hobbies, when those things really didn’t matter at all.

Ever gone on a date with a woman who was JUST LIKE YOU. You thought she was your soul mate because she also loved sports, Volkswagens and rock climbing but it still didn’t work out??

Well, here’s why. She wasn’t your opposite in personality type. Opposites compliment each other and that’s why they get along so well.

So, next time you go online looking for HOT babes, you need to put things like hobbies and common interests on the back burner. Unfortunately, most Internet dating sites use these things to match people, which is totally wrong. Instead, really look at her profile and determine her personality. It’s not as tough as you think. Look at her writing style. Look at her pictures. If you look closely enough you will finally “see” her.

Once you become good at screening for your type, you’ll become a true Internet dating master in no time!

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