So, if you’ve had a profile up on an Online Dating site for any length of time, chances are you’ve received a lot of “winks” or “Icebreakers” depending on which dating site you are using.  These are flirting tools women often use to let you know they’re interested.

Now, have YOU been responding to these winks?

If not, you’ve been missing out on a HUGE opportunity!

When a woman winks at you, she’s obviously already interested.  She might be on the shy side, and wasn’t ready to send an email which is fine.  At least you know there is interest on her part.

So, what do you do when you receive these flirty signs?

Well, imagine you are at a bar or restaurant and a very attractive woman from across the room catches your eye.  You gaze into each others eyes for a second or two, and then suddenly, she winks at you! 

How would you react? 

What would you do?

Got it?  Good.

Now, let’s get back to online winks.  When a woman winks at you, just do the same thing you would do if she winked at you in a bar.  Take action and APPROACH HER!  Remember it’s always a man’s job to be assertive and take the lead when we get signals like this.

Now, you can’t literally approach her when she winks at you online so why not send her a message like this:

“Hey, was that you winking at me from across the room?  Well, what are you waiting for?  Come on over and introduce yourself"!

See how that works? 

You are both acknowledging her wink and sending her back a flirty playful response!

Now, it’s up to her to be a little more assertive and send you back a message.  After all, she is the one who winked at you first.

So, next time you get a wink, send her the message above and see what happens.  I guarantee, that she’ll be emailing you back a response quickly.

Oh, and one more thing, don’t ever send winks or icebreakers to women.  Too many other guys are doing that and it’s not going to accomplish anything other than fill up her inbox with garbage soon to be thrown in the trash.  Women want a man with balls who has the confidence to send her a message, not a wink.

So, in summary, don’t respond to winks, instead let them wink at you, then take action!