Let me ask you a few questions.

     When you first open up your email inbox, do you know instantly which messages to delete?

     If so, how do you know which ones belong in the trash? 

     Well, if you’re like me, as soon as you go to your inbox you check each email’s subject line, that is if you don’t recognize who it’s from right off the bat.  The subject line will tell you right away whether or not it's junk mail.

     If I see anything having to do with Viagra, Cialis, Nigeria, Awards, Gift Cards or Adult sites, then I delete it right away.

     So, this means that when you send out emails, the subject line is SUPER important and it must be able to get a woman’s attention in some way if she’s going to open it.

     This is especially true since attractive women on internet dating sites get tons of emails from guys every day.  These women are just looking for a reason to delete your email right away and if that happens, it’s game over before it starts.

     I was just reading a report online that dealt with email subject lines and which ones worked the best.  Well, as it turns out, there is one particularly simple and straightforward subject line that is outperforming all the rest by huge margins.

      Before I reveal what it is, think about all the subject lines that get your attention.  What is it that draws you in and makes you think, “I have to see what this is about!”

     Would it be something like:

     “Look here, more free stuff!”  or   “OPEN ME RIGHT NOW!”

     Yah, those worked a long time ago, but now, you just delete them.

     Well, what if you opened up your email inbox and saw a subject line that simply read:

     “bad news…”?

     Whoa!

     That’s right.  You would want to open it right away!  “What do you mean “bad news”?  Oh no!  I better see what’s wrong!”

     You see, that is the subject line that was found to open emails more quickly then any others.  When you think about it, it makes sense.  If you were to open your email inbox and see a subject line that read, “bad news…”, you would immediately think it was from a friend or family member telling you some distressing news.  And you would HAVE to open it right away.

     So, how can we take this bit of news and apply it to internet dating?  Particularly, sending emails to very attractive women?

     Well, after I got my brain going, I came up with a few good ways to apply this concept when sending out emails.

     So, I go online and find a profile of a woman who is very attractive and I decide I want to contact her.  I write in my subject line:

     “bad news…”

     Now, I don’t just leave it like that then write something totally unrelated to the subject line.  That would be lame and she would delete my email right away.  So I might start it off like this:

      “It’s come to my attention that you’re about to reply to the guy above me in your inbox.  Did you know that he’s known for proposing to women on the first date?  Yes, well good thing I’m here to stop you from making a HUGE mistake!  Anyway…”  

     Then, just go on with your email.  See, first I catch her attention with my subject line then I turn it into something humorous at the beginning of my email.  I got her attention then put a smile on her face.  This kind of response is GOLD and works for me every time!

     So, give it a try.  Come up with a few subject lines similar to “bad news…”  Here are a few off the top of my head:

      “Distressing news…”     

     “I’m afraid I have some bad news…”     

     “This is unfortunate…” 

     Then, craft an email similar to the example I used above.  Start off explaining the subject line by making it into something humorous.

     In fact just use this template:

       “It’s come to my attention that you’re about to reply to the guy above me in your inbox.  Did you know that he’s known for (insert typical mistake guys on dating sites make)?  Yes, well good thing I’m here to stop you from making a HUGE mistake!  Anyway…”  

     And there you go.

     Remember, getting those emails opened is crucial to your internet dating success.  Once you have that down, you’ll be an Internet Dating Master in no time!