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Do NOT Use This Subject Line…

So, I was bantering back and forth with a woman I met on Plenty Of Fish and I do what I usually do in a second email and ask her how it’s been going on POF.  She responds that she’s been getting A LOT of “Hey Sexy” emails from guys that obviously have not even read her profile.

Read that again!!   Guys who have “not even read her profile.”

Ok, there are two things wrong here and I think you know what I’m taking about.

First, I’ve said it many times before and I’ll keep saying it until I’m BLUE in the face, do NOT use lame subject lines when emailing women online!!  And yes, “Hey Sexy” is a very LAME email subject line!  There are numerous ways to get a woman’s attention and using really bad, unoriginal subject lines is NEVER the right way to do it.

Secondly, make SURE you always mention something about her profile when emailing her.  This lets her know that you read her profile!!  The days of sending out cut and paste emails to every HOT woman you can find are long gone!  She’ll sniff it out a mile away… So, don’t even think about it.

Anyway, I then responded to this woman saying how AWESOME and original the “Hey Sexy” subject line is and why didn’t I think of that one before… Obvious SARCASM!  She laughs and now we have a meet up this weekend!

So remember, email subject lines are crucial, if not the MOST important component of your emails.  So be sure you get them right!

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That’s all for now.  I’ll talk to you soon.

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My New Ebook Is Here!

The time has come…

And I just wanted to let you in on some exciting news!

In recent months, I’ve had a lot of guys email me wanting to know why their emails aren’t getting read and responded to when emailing women online.

As you know, this can be a BIG challenge with most men and it’s one I wanted to address specifically.

When I first started out with Online Dating years ago, I had the same exact problem. I would send out TONS of emails daily, and then wonder why I wasn’t getting any responses.

It was VERY frustrating having to see, “Unread Deleted” when I went to check the “read notification” list on any Online Dating Site.

I knew I had to get to the root of the problem!

Well, I would later find out that my emails were NOT GETTING READ in the first place!!

(Believe me, it took a lot of testing and thinking and MORE testing to figure out exactly what was going wrong.)

So after many months, I determined that it was my Email Subject Lines that were NOT doing the job of getting a woman’s attention immediately!

That makes sense because as you know, women are getting bombarded with 50 to 100 emails daily from guys all desperately vying for her time. And if a woman doesn’t see an email that compels her to open it, then she’ll miss it and move on to one that does.

So, the key here is to make sure you use Email Subject Lines that STAND OUT and force her to respond!

Well, I’m proud to say I’ve solved this problem by coming up with a HUGE list of my very BEST email subject lines. I’ve been using them for YEARS to meet Beautiful Women Online and now I’ve decided to share them with you!

I have to admit, I’m a little nervous at the thought of revealing my sneaky little weapons, but I want you to have the success that I currently enjoy with Online Dating.

And the only way to do that is to share with you what works and what works consistently, ALL THE TIME!

So here’s the deal…

I just finished up my brand new ebook called:  “101 Eye-Catching Email Subject Lines For Online Dating”

In it, I’ve included all of my very best email subject lines and I think you really should check it out.

In fact, I’m currently using a lot of the lines in this book right now to meet women online!  They are, afterall timeless – and you’ll be able to use them whenever you want… even years from now!!!

Alright so… to read more about my new ebook, just go here:

I’m VERY excited about it and I hope you will be too!!

It’s been about ten years in the making, and I’m NOT holding anything back!

Here’s the link again:

Check it out and I hope you enjoy it!

I’ll talk to you soon,


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Holiday Internet Dating Tips

Here we are approaching the end of the year… again!

Oh, how time flies when you’re busy…

Especially when you are dating plenty of attractive women online.

Recently, I have been meeting my fair share of women online, but it took a while for me to get to this point.

You see, about six months ago I broke up with my Girlfriend of two years.  It wasn’t an easy decision and these kinds of decisions are always tough to make.  It was a relationship that just wasn’t working so something had to be done.

Anyway, it took me a few months before I was ready to date online again.  BTW, I always recommend taking a little break after a serious relationship to “clear your head.”

I know some guys like to get right back out there to try and forget about “her”, but I always found it hard to do that.  One thing’s for sure is that you will NOT be in the right frame of mind if you try and date other women while still hung up on an ex!!  So, just make sure you take that into consideration.

So, as I said, we are approaching the end of the year and here in the US, that means lots and lots of HOLIDAYS!

Not a good time of year to try online dating… you say??

Well, think again!

It’s a great time to get out there and attack those online dating sites!  Think about it.  Women do NOT like to be alone during the holidays.  So, where do you think they’re going to meet guys??

Internet Dating Sites, of course!

If you haven’t gone online and sent out emails lately, then WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR??  Now is the time to take advantage of this situation.

In fact, I’m going to give you a very effective email subject line to use RIGHT NOW!  You know how I like to use compelling and eye-catching subject lines and this one works like a charm.  In fact, my new ebook is going to be ALL ABOUT catchy email subject lines so be sure and keep a look out for it!

So, try this…  Send an email with the following subject line…

“A Friendly Holiday Warning…”

Then, go on to warn her about something that might happen as a direct result of the Holidays.  You have to be clever here.  Be sure and make it HUMOROUS.  Maybe mention more lame guys who might be emailing her and in order to avoid them, she’d better get hitched up with you.

Think about it and see what you come up with.

Now, go online and start sending out those emails!  And be sure and let me know how it goes.

Happy Holidays!

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How To Get Your Online Dating Emails Opened

Let me ask you a few questions…

When you first open up your email inbox, do you instantly know which messages to delete?

If so, how do you know which ones belong in the trash?

Well, if you’re like me, as soon as you go to your inbox you check each email’s subject line, that is if you don’t recognize who it’s from right off the bat.

The subject line will tell you right away whether or not it’s junk mail. If I see anything having to do with Viagra, Cialis, Nigeria, Awards, Gift Cards or Adult sites, then I delete it right away.

So, this means that when you send out emails, the subject line is SUPER important and it must be able to get a woman’s attention in some way if she’s going to open it.

This is especially true since attractive women on internet dating sites get tons of emails from guys every day. These women are just looking for a reason to delete your email right away and if that happens, it’s game over before it starts.

Well, as it turns out, there is one particularly simple and straightforward subject line that WILL get your emails opened every time.

Before I reveal what it is, think about all the subject lines that get your attention. What is it that draws you in and makes you think, “I have to see what this is about!”

Would it be something like:

“Look here, more free stuff!” or “OPEN ME RIGHT NOW!”

Yah, those worked a long time ago, but now, you just delete them.

Well, what if you opened up your email inbox and saw a subject line that simply read:

“bad news…”?

Whoa! That’s right.

You would want to open it right away!

“What do you mean “bad news”? Oh no! I better see what’s wrong!”

You see, that is the subject line that will open emails more quickly then any others.

When you think about it, it makes sense. If you were to open your email inbox and see a subject line that read, “bad news…”, you would immediately think it was from a friend or family member telling you some distressing news. And you would HAVE to open it right away.

So, what are a few good ways to apply this subject line to internet dating? Particularly, sending emails to very attractive women? Well, there are many different ways to do it.

So, I go online and find a profile of a woman who is very attractive and I decide I want to contact her. I write in my subject line:

“bad news…”

Now, I don’t just leave it like that then write something totally unrelated to the subject line. That would be lame and she would delete my email right away.

So I might start it off like this:

“It’s come to my attention that you’re about to reply to the guy above me in your inbox. Did you know that he’s known for proposing to women on the first date? Yes, well good thing I’m here to stop you from making a HUGE mistake! Anyway…”

Then, just go on with your email. See, first I catch her attention with my subject line then I turn it into something humorous at the beginning of my email. I got her attention then put a smile on her face.

This kind of response is GOLD and works for me every time! So, give it a try. Come up with a few subject lines similar to “bad news…” Here are a few off the top of my head:

“Distressing news…”

“I’m afraid I have some bad news…”

“This is unfortunate…”

Then, craft an email similar to the example I used above. Start off explaining the subject line by making it into something humorous. In fact, just use this template:

“It’s come to my attention that you’re about to reply to the guy above me in your inbox. Did you know that he’s known for (insert typical mistake guys on dating sites make)? Yes, well good thing I’m here to stop you from making a HUGE mistake! Anyway…”

And there you go!

Remember, getting those emails opened is crucial to your internet dating success. Once you have that down, you’ll be an Internet Dating Master in no time!!!


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Are You Using This Subject Line??

I just ran across a very funny article about a crafty new subject line some guys are using when writing to women on internet dating sites.

Check it out here:

Internet Dating Article

My advice??? Obviously, don’t do it!

Some guys are too much!  lol


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Emailing Women SUCKS!

What do you think is the MOST frustrating part of online dating???

What do you HATE the most about it?

I’ll bet you don’t have to think too hard about it because I’m guessing that you find “getting women to respond to your emails” the MOST frustrating!

Am I right?

Well, I know because I’ve been there. I remember the days of sending out multiple emails to every HOT woman I could find, only to be rejected again and again and AGAIN!


After all, what’s the point of even spending all this time with internet dating if you can’t get women to view or respond to your emails??


Well, I’ve got news for you…

Did you know that most of the women you are emailing aren’t even OPENING your messages?

It’s true!

Now, if most women aren’t opening your messages then they definitely can’t write you back!

No, these women aren’t “rejecting” you for being too bald, too short, too old, or too fat…

They aren’t even SEEING your emails in the first place!

A woman can’t reject someone she doesn’t know exists… right?

This is good news!

Now, what you need to do is make sure women are opening your emails. As you know, attractive women are getting bombarded with emails from guys every hour of every day and you better BELIEVE that they are going to delete ones that don’t get their attention… FAST!

So, what is it that determines whether or not a woman will open your email?

It comes down to ONE thing:

Your email subject line!

If you are using a dating site that also displays a user’s picture with the message then she will see that too but your email subject line is the single MOST important part of your message and if you want your emails read… you had BETTER get it right!

No, lines like, “Hey baby” or “Hi” aren’t going to cut it.

If you use one of those subject lines, your email will be deleted immediately!

Well lucky for you, I’ve come up with a way of making sure your emails will get opened and read EVERY TIME! It’s really not that hard to do and you’ll be kicking yourself for not learning this sneaky little trick sooner. It involves using mystery and ambiguity in your subject lines. Women can’t resist this! It drives them NUTS!

Imagine sending an email with the following subject line:

“Wait! You’re about to MAKE a HUGE mistake! Don’t do it!”

Now, when ANY woman comes across an email with that subject you can be SURE she’s going to open it.

The next part is crucial!

You have to follow it up in your email in a way that makes sense. Don’t just launch into your message without explaining the subject line. You have to be clever here… Say something like:

“…Don’t open that message from the guy above me unless you enjoy bicycle dates. He doesn’t own a car. Anyway…”

That’s just one of many messages I’ve sent to women and they just EAT IT UP!

What does it do?

First, it gets their attention… very important!

Second, it shows that I have a sense of humor. Also SUPER IMPORTANT. Most guys don’t use ANY humor in their emails to attractive women because they are so scared of them.

Finally, it shows I have confidence and I’m NOT afraid to express who I am! Super important!

Try it out and let me know how it goes!

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Why She Won’t Respond To Your Emails…

Ok, so a lot of guys have been writing me lately on the subject of emails… more specifically, they are having trouble getting women to respond to that first email.

This is, in fact, the most common hurdle men face with online dating.

They see a profile with a woman who looks GREAT, so they send her an email.

Now, the wait begins and if they didn’t get her attention using the methods I teach, then they’ll be waiting a LONG time for a response.

Remember, women are getting bombarded with emails all day long from guys. That’s probably something you already know and it’s important to realize.

Now all you have to do is GET HER ATTENTION and do something that no other guy is doing!!!

The way to do this is with mysterious and ambiguous email subject lines.

After going through years of testing various emails and their response rate, I found that most women will look at an email subject line FIRST when deciding whether or not to respond.

That’s really the only thing making her click! The exception would of course be if she’s on a site where a pic is included with the response, such as Match.

So, be sure and include a subject line that will have her wondering…

“What does this guy mean?” or “What is he talking about?”

Here’s my all time fave:

“Hey, you’d better stop that right now!”

It works in email subject lines and profile headlines. Then you follow it up with something clever like…

“That’s right, you’d better stop wasting your time browsing around lame profiles! You’re going to fall asleep!”

Then just go right into your email..

See how easy it is?

That’s how you get her attention.

Give it a try and be SURE to let me know what happens!

If you want to discover several other ways to get a woman’s attention online then my ebook “Internet Dating Mastery” is the place to find them.

Go read it now and become an Internet Dating Master!


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This Is Going To Piss You Off…


I want you to stop and think why you want to read this post.

Is it because of the subject line?

I’m thinking yes!

We often don’t realize how important subject lines are when writing to women on internet dating sites. There are so many different variations I use to get a woman’s attention and this is yet another one.

So, I start my email with this subject line…

“This is going to piss you off.”

Do you think she’s going to open it?

Damn right!

Now, where do I go from there?

How do I start off this email?

Well I need to be clever and make it funny.

What could piss her off?

Think about typical “chick” things that annoy them.

Well, what could be more annoying than other guys on dating sites!!

It’s always fun to reference some dude who’s totally clueless when it comes to online dating.

Ok, here we go:

Subject: “This is totally going to piss you off!”

Body: I mean, it’s come to my attention that the guy below me in your inbox is actually MARRIED and looking for a fling. Really! If that isn’t bad enough, the guy above you is LYING about his age! Ok, now that we’ve established their true intentions, we can focus on me…

And just take it from there!


If you found this article helpful, then you REALLY need to check out my TOP SECRET Online Dating Profile.  My email inbox was literally FLOODED with emails within MINUTES after posting this profile!

Click here to see it RIGHT NOW!

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This Scares me…

So, what were you thinking when you read that subject line?

I’m going to read your mind and guess that you really needed to see what this post is about.

I mean, if I saw a subject line that read, “This Scares me…”, I’m going to open it up right away!

Well, when I saw this subject line in my email inbox, I came up with a pretty cool idea.

Now, you know I really like coming up with clever subject lines for my online dating emails.

Nothing is more important than getting your emails opened because attractive women get bombarded with emails from guys all the time.

So, how about I use the above subject line in an email!

I can see it now…

Subject:  This Scares me…

Body:  I mean, you are getting flooded with emails from guys that just DON’T get it! And you were about to respond to one of them??  Don’t do it!  Seriously!  Anyway…

There we go.

Just continue on from there.

You can come up with all kinds of clever ways to expand onthat subject line.

Go for it!

And let me know how it goes.

And stay tuned for more Internet Dating Tips.

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