Online Dating Emails

Poor Results With E-Harmony Cont…

So, I was mentioning before how I really think the Online Dating Site, E-Harmony basically SUCKS!

I talked about how you have to answer a gazillion BORING questions during the sign up process.  Also, they put up all sorts of cumbersome roadblocks on the way to actual communication!

You’ll find that women who don’t quite interest you will send you a list of questions during the “Guided Communication” phase.  Kind of STUPID as the idea is to get to emailing and in person dates as quickly as possible.

Now, the MAJOR flaw with E-Harmony… the so called “key dimensions of personality” matching system!

I find it hard to believe that with all the so called “science” behind this site, that what they came up with is essentially a process of matching guys with women with similar personalities to them.

As you know, I believe in dating a woman who is your opposite in personality type because it adds more spark to the relationship, and it assures that a couple will complement each other nicely.

What I got was a TON of matches who were WAY TO MUCH like me!  I would often log in to see nothing but attorneys, accountants, managers and other typical “Left-brainers” in my matches list.

And this was not what I wanted at all!

I like the outgoing, spontaneous artistic types and I was not getting matched with them!!

SUCKS!  And this is what I paid $50 per month for??  Not good!

I’ll talk about some more EH flaws in another post.

How about you?  What was your opinion of your E-Harmony matches?

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Holiday Internet Dating Tips

Here we are approaching the end of the year… again!

Oh, how time flies when you’re busy…

Especially when you are dating plenty of attractive women online.

Recently, I have been meeting my fair share of women online, but it took a while for me to get to this point.

You see, about six months ago I broke up with my Girlfriend of two years.  It wasn’t an easy decision and these kinds of decisions are always tough to make.  It was a relationship that just wasn’t working so something had to be done.

Anyway, it took me a few months before I was ready to date online again.  BTW, I always recommend taking a little break after a serious relationship to “clear your head.”

I know some guys like to get right back out there to try and forget about “her”, but I always found it hard to do that.  One thing’s for sure is that you will NOT be in the right frame of mind if you try and date other women while still hung up on an ex!!  So, just make sure you take that into consideration.

So, as I said, we are approaching the end of the year and here in the US, that means lots and lots of HOLIDAYS!

Not a good time of year to try online dating… you say??

Well, think again!

It’s a great time to get out there and attack those online dating sites!  Think about it.  Women do NOT like to be alone during the holidays.  So, where do you think they’re going to meet guys??

Internet Dating Sites, of course!

If you haven’t gone online and sent out emails lately, then WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR??  Now is the time to take advantage of this situation.

In fact, I’m going to give you a very effective email subject line to use RIGHT NOW!  You know how I like to use compelling and eye-catching subject lines and this one works like a charm.  In fact, my new ebook is going to be ALL ABOUT catchy email subject lines so be sure and keep a look out for it!

So, try this…  Send an email with the following subject line…

“A Friendly Holiday Warning…”

Then, go on to warn her about something that might happen as a direct result of the Holidays.  You have to be clever here.  Be sure and make it HUMOROUS.  Maybe mention more lame guys who might be emailing her and in order to avoid them, she’d better get hitched up with you.

Think about it and see what you come up with.

Now, go online and start sending out those emails!  And be sure and let me know how it goes.

Happy Holidays!

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How To Respond To A Woman’s Internet Dating Profile

So, you see an amazingly HOT woman on Match.com.  She has great photos and a personality to boot!

She has a great sense of humor and a very dynamic personality.  You can tell she’d be a great addition to your already fulfilling life.  She also lives reasonably close to you.

You just HAVE to respond to her!!!

But how?

As you can imagine, she’s probably getting 50 to 60 emails a day from every guy within a 500-mile radius. She opens her inbox to see a barrage of boring emails with subject lines that all looks the same.

“Hey baby! You’re so fine!”

“Hey, nice guy here. I think you’re cute!”

“Oh my GOD! You’re so beautiful! Please respond to this email!”

“Baby, I want to make you my love muffin!”

And the emails get worse and worse. This is the reality of a beautiful woman on an internet dating site.

And this is GREAT news!  Why?

Because, you are going to be the real MAN that stands out and gets her attention. You’ve already seen her profile and now you MUST find a way to get her eyes on YOU.

How do you do that?

It’s simple.

Have a GREAT subject line in your email. If you don’t have a great subject line then your email will NEVER get read. Simple as that. That’s why we have to put good subject lines in our response.

THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF RESPONDING TO ONLINE DATING PROFILES!!!

Now, I like to use subject lines that are ambiguous. Ones that leave her wondering, “What is he talking about?”

Women love a good mystery and nothing is more mysterious then a subject line that has her wondering why you wrote it.  I might write something like:

“Oh my GOD! What are you doing?”

It doesn’t get more mysterious then that! When she sees an email like this in her inbox, you’d better bet that she’s going to open it.

Now, you need to be sure and explain it in your email to her. If you don’t she’ll feel tricked and move on to someone else.  There are many different ways to go here.

I might start off my email like this:

“I mean, here you are sitting there with 50 emails in your inbox and it took you this long to get to mine? I just might forgive you if you’re up for a challenge. “

Then, just continue your email. See how easy that was?

The most important thing is to get her attention right off the bat. Once you do that, you’re in.

So, write down a list of ten creative, eye-catching, and ambiguous subject lines similar to the example above. Then come up with ways to start off an email using each subject line. Once you have your arsenal, you’re ready to respond to all the hot women in your area.

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If you found this article helpful, then you REALLY need to check out my TOP SECRET Online Dating Profile.  My email inbox was literally FLOODED with emails within MINUTES after posting this profile!

Click here to see it RIGHT NOW!

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How To Get Your Online Dating Emails Opened

Let me ask you a few questions…

When you first open up your email inbox, do you instantly know which messages to delete?

If so, how do you know which ones belong in the trash?

Well, if you’re like me, as soon as you go to your inbox you check each email’s subject line, that is if you don’t recognize who it’s from right off the bat.

The subject line will tell you right away whether or not it’s junk mail. If I see anything having to do with Viagra, Cialis, Nigeria, Awards, Gift Cards or Adult sites, then I delete it right away.

So, this means that when you send out emails, the subject line is SUPER important and it must be able to get a woman’s attention in some way if she’s going to open it.

This is especially true since attractive women on internet dating sites get tons of emails from guys every day. These women are just looking for a reason to delete your email right away and if that happens, it’s game over before it starts.

Well, as it turns out, there is one particularly simple and straightforward subject line that WILL get your emails opened every time.

Before I reveal what it is, think about all the subject lines that get your attention. What is it that draws you in and makes you think, “I have to see what this is about!”

Would it be something like:

“Look here, more free stuff!” or “OPEN ME RIGHT NOW!”

Yah, those worked a long time ago, but now, you just delete them.

Well, what if you opened up your email inbox and saw a subject line that simply read:

“bad news…”?

Whoa! That’s right.

You would want to open it right away!

“What do you mean “bad news”? Oh no! I better see what’s wrong!”

You see, that is the subject line that will open emails more quickly then any others.

When you think about it, it makes sense. If you were to open your email inbox and see a subject line that read, “bad news…”, you would immediately think it was from a friend or family member telling you some distressing news. And you would HAVE to open it right away.

So, what are a few good ways to apply this subject line to internet dating? Particularly, sending emails to very attractive women? Well, there are many different ways to do it.

So, I go online and find a profile of a woman who is very attractive and I decide I want to contact her. I write in my subject line:

“bad news…”

Now, I don’t just leave it like that then write something totally unrelated to the subject line. That would be lame and she would delete my email right away.

So I might start it off like this:

“It’s come to my attention that you’re about to reply to the guy above me in your inbox. Did you know that he’s known for proposing to women on the first date? Yes, well good thing I’m here to stop you from making a HUGE mistake! Anyway…”

Then, just go on with your email. See, first I catch her attention with my subject line then I turn it into something humorous at the beginning of my email. I got her attention then put a smile on her face.

This kind of response is GOLD and works for me every time! So, give it a try. Come up with a few subject lines similar to “bad news…” Here are a few off the top of my head:

“Distressing news…”

“I’m afraid I have some bad news…”

“This is unfortunate…”

Then, craft an email similar to the example I used above. Start off explaining the subject line by making it into something humorous. In fact, just use this template:

“It’s come to my attention that you’re about to reply to the guy above me in your inbox. Did you know that he’s known for (insert typical mistake guys on dating sites make)? Yes, well good thing I’m here to stop you from making a HUGE mistake! Anyway…”

And there you go!

Remember, getting those emails opened is crucial to your internet dating success. Once you have that down, you’ll be an Internet Dating Master in no time!!!

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If you found this article helpful, then you REALLY need to check out my TOP SECRET Online Dating Profile.  My email inbox was literally FLOODED with emails within MINUTES after posting this profile!

Click here to see it RIGHT NOW!

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Emailing Women SUCKS!

What do you think is the MOST frustrating part of online dating???

What do you HATE the most about it?

I’ll bet you don’t have to think too hard about it because I’m guessing that you find “getting women to respond to your emails” the MOST frustrating!

Am I right?

Well, I know because I’ve been there. I remember the days of sending out multiple emails to every HOT woman I could find, only to be rejected again and again and AGAIN!

Sucks!

After all, what’s the point of even spending all this time with internet dating if you can’t get women to view or respond to your emails??

Right?

Well, I’ve got news for you…

Did you know that most of the women you are emailing aren’t even OPENING your messages?

It’s true!

Now, if most women aren’t opening your messages then they definitely can’t write you back!

No, these women aren’t “rejecting” you for being too bald, too short, too old, or too fat…

They aren’t even SEEING your emails in the first place!

A woman can’t reject someone she doesn’t know exists… right?

This is good news!

Now, what you need to do is make sure women are opening your emails. As you know, attractive women are getting bombarded with emails from guys every hour of every day and you better BELIEVE that they are going to delete ones that don’t get their attention… FAST!

So, what is it that determines whether or not a woman will open your email?

It comes down to ONE thing:

Your email subject line!

If you are using a dating site that also displays a user’s picture with the message then she will see that too but your email subject line is the single MOST important part of your message and if you want your emails read… you had BETTER get it right!

No, lines like, “Hey baby” or “Hi” aren’t going to cut it.

If you use one of those subject lines, your email will be deleted immediately!

Well lucky for you, I’ve come up with a way of making sure your emails will get opened and read EVERY TIME! It’s really not that hard to do and you’ll be kicking yourself for not learning this sneaky little trick sooner. It involves using mystery and ambiguity in your subject lines. Women can’t resist this! It drives them NUTS!

Imagine sending an email with the following subject line:

“Wait! You’re about to MAKE a HUGE mistake! Don’t do it!”

Now, when ANY woman comes across an email with that subject you can be SURE she’s going to open it.

The next part is crucial!

You have to follow it up in your email in a way that makes sense. Don’t just launch into your message without explaining the subject line. You have to be clever here… Say something like:

“…Don’t open that message from the guy above me unless you enjoy bicycle dates. He doesn’t own a car. Anyway…”

That’s just one of many messages I’ve sent to women and they just EAT IT UP!

What does it do?

First, it gets their attention… very important!

Second, it shows that I have a sense of humor. Also SUPER IMPORTANT. Most guys don’t use ANY humor in their emails to attractive women because they are so scared of them.

Finally, it shows I have confidence and I’m NOT afraid to express who I am! Super important!

Try it out and let me know how it goes!

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Secret Halloween Online Dating Tips

So, Halloween is here!

Always my favorite time of year.

When I was a kid, obviously I loved Halloween because of the pillow case full of candy I would always receive from generous neighbors.

Now it’s not so much about candy, it’s more about Halloween parties with sexy women in mind blowing SEXY costumes!

Just go out on the streets Friday night and you’ll find them… kitty outfits, devil outfits, cop girl outfits, and I’m sure we’re going to see more than a few Sarah Palin clones out there this year.

Not that I mind.

So, how does online dating fit into all of this. Well, now’s the time to send a “Halloween Party” email template to women. Chances are, you know where a Halloween party is this year and if you don’t, ask someone where one is.

Go online and send a woman something like,

Subject: “Halloween Party Wanted”

Body: “OK, you look like a person who just might know where one is in our lovely town. So, show me the way to the nearest, wildest Halloween Party and I just might give you the pleasure of escorting me.

Let me know soon! Time is running out!

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There you go.

Try it out.

You just might meet someone special and have the time of your life in the process.

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If you found this article helpful, then you REALLY need to check out my TOP SECRET Online Dating Profile.  My email inbox was literally FLOODED with emails within MINUTES after posting this profile!

Click here to see it RIGHT NOW!

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