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Brutal Honesty!

Don’t you often wish that at the conclusion of a date, when you’re chatting with her on your porch, you could just be brutally honest?  Well, this video demonstrates just that and is the most hilarious thing I’ve ever seen!

Warning:  Don’t watch it if you don’t like graphic “Adult” language.

Check out this video!


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Taming “Needy” Behaviors.

You know I often talk about how important it is to avoid needy behavior when dealing with women online.  Well, here’s a letter from a subscriber that illustrates what can happen when you come on too strong:


I gotta problem. I met a woman a couple of weeks ago, and what a woman! She is just amazing and I cant get her out of my head. We have only met twice so far but spend over an hour on the phone very night. The first date was dinner at the yacht club and the 2nd we spent most of the night on the beach talking and drinking champagne. Sounds pretty good eh! So what’s the problem? Well, her ex really screwed her up. She’s not given me all the details yet but the result is that she has major trust issues and she shares she has ‘lost’ herself and does not know who she is or what she wants out of life anymore. She says she sees me as a great friend but does not know if she wants another relationship. Her last relationship was a marriage of about 20 years. I know it crazy but I think she is the one! How do I get her to break through her current negativity and realize that not all men will damage her in the way that her ex has.

My head is telling to give this woman a wide berth and look elsewhere but I just can’t because I would wonder what might have been if I stuck it out.

CY Australia

(My Response)


Ok, first of all… SLOW DOWN!

You need to take a deep breath here and give her some room to think.  I see two big problems here that stand out:

“but spend over an hour on the phone very night.”

It’s great that you two have a solid connection and that things seem to be going well, but you don’t want to be spending hours on the phone every night.

Are you familiar with attraction theory?  Things like giving her the gift of missing you and avoiding neediness?  When you come on too strong and suffocate women, it can lead to this…

“She says she sees me as a great friend but does not know if she wants another relationship.”

Bingo!  That tells you something right there.  She will rationalize it in her mind that she’s “not ready” to move onto someone else and her past relationship does factor in, but; you still need to do things right when it comes to building attraction.

Here’s what you should do… no contact for three days!  I mean no phone calls, texts, nothing!  See what happens.  I’m betting she will come to you.

Try and be patient and take things more slowly.  Let her know that you are still dating other women, which is what you should be doing anyway.

If she is “the one.”  You’ll know soon enough.


Remember, any time you display needy behavior, it lowers your value and a woman will thus become less attracted to you.

So what’s the answer??  Don’t do it!!  Always raise your perceived value in her eyes.  That’s the key to becoming successful with Online Dating.

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Two For One Special!

Well, it’s that time of year again!

I know, it always comes up so quickly!

It’s the end of the year, which for most around the world means Holidays and New Year’s festivities.  I also like to take this time every year to send a message to my valuable subscribers… and that would be you!

I’ll make it brief this time.

It’s been a pretty good year for myself and I hope it’s been great for you as well and you’re still meeting plenty of women online.

If you haven’t been putting all your efforts into Online Dating, now is definitely the time to do so.  There are more women than ever joining Online Dating sites EVERY single day and I continue to be amazed at just how many there really are.

Sites like Match, POF, eHarmony, and OkCupid are still going strong!  And if you’ve been using my material, I’m sure you’re starting to realize just how powerful it can be when using these sites to meet women online.

As you know, I’m currently working on a new Online Dating Video Course and the feedback I recently received from my subscribers has been incredible to say the least!  I really appreciate it!  Some of you are struggling with things I really hadn’t considered.

Well don’t worry… we’re going to put an END to those frustrations when I get this course done.  You can count on it!  Look for it to be released in a few months.

As for now, I’d like to offer you a nice little bonus.

From now until the end of this month you can get both my ebooks;  “Internet Dating Mastery” AND “101 Eye-catching Email Subject Lines for Online Dating” for the price of one!!

That’s right, get both books for just $27!!

It’s my gift to you for being a valuable subscriber and for helping me keep this little passion of mine going so strong!

So, just click the link below to claim your bundle:

I hope you enjoy them.

Happy Holidays to you and we’ll talk soon!


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I Need Your Help!


I hope things are going great and everyone is meeting plenty of women online!  I have something to announce today:

I’m working on a new project which is going to be one of the coolest things you’ve ever seen when it comes to Online Dating tips and training!

It’s a full comprehensive VIDEO COURSE, which will have a series of short videos of me showing you (in detail) exactly how I meet women online.  Imagine sitting over my shoulder while I work my magic and getting a sneak peak at me writing profiles and emails to women!

That’s what this is going to be like and it’s now in full production!

But, I need your help…

You see, it’s not “my” new product.  It’s going to be your product!

What I mean is, it’s going to contain all the valuable Online Dating tips and advice that you want to see and I want you to tell me what’s going to be in it.  That way it will be like you being on my product creation team helping me produce one of the BEST and most cutting edge training courses available to men!

So, I’d like you to respond by telling me what you want to learn the most.

What are you MOST frustrated with when it comes to meeting women online.

Do you have trouble writing profiles?

Do you have trouble writing emails or getting women to respond?

Don’t know what to say or where to meet on a First Date?

Do you want to know how to text women to get them to meet you instantly?

Whatever it is, I want to know!

Just post in the comments section below and tell me all about your struggles.

(Remember, it will contain instructive videos so think about what you might want to see in a video!)

And check this out…

I’m going to reward the person who gives me the BEST and most thought provoking response by giving him the entire course for FREE as soon as it’s done!!

That’s right… it will be yours to enjoy BEFORE ANYONE ELSE!

So get crackin, and let me know what you want to learn.  I’ll be anxiously awaiting your response!

Talk to you again soon,


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Internet Dating Tips From Women


I just ran across an article that’s called, “The Ten Commandments of Online Dating.”  Now, I normally don’t pay much attention to Online Dating advice written by women FOR guys, but this article was rather interesting.

Check it out here:  Online Dating Article

Ok, I know, not really earth shattering… BUT let’s do a little recap anyway, just for fun!

1)  Thou shall not act too cool to care.  Well, actually acting like you really aren’t into someone can work in your favor.  As you know, nothing can kill your chances faster than being too needy when trying to meet women online.  But, you need to show interest initially otherwise she won’t know you exist.  But save the “too cool for school” act for when she’s already attracted to you.

2)  Thou shall not search online for a new mate until the present mate is out of the picture.  This one is obvious.  Be sure and have your head together before going to meet women online.  I talk more about this in Chapter 1 of my ebook Internet Dating Mastery.

3)  Thou shall not be long winded.  This one is very interesting.  Note that she says being brief and to the point shows confidence!  Well, we know how important confidence is when attracting women.  Now you know why so many guys tell you to keep those emails brief and to the point!

4)  Thou shall not forget to use the spell checker.  Obviously you want to use good spelling.  Nothing to add here.

5)  Thou shall not act Creepy McCreepy.  Yes, don’t act creepy when meeting online.  If you follow my advice, you shouldn’t have ANY problems in this area.

6)  Thou shall not pick a dumb username.   Now, when it comes to usernames; you just need to avoid LAME ones.  There is no super secret username that’s going to make her want to jump you.  They don’t exist.  So don’t spend too much time trying to come up with one.  BUT, don’t use BAD ones.

7)  Thou shall not e- lie.  Don’t lie about your age or height in your profiles.  OK, add one inch to your height but THAT’s IT!  Remember, the goal is to meet her in person as soon as possible.  What are you going to do when you meet her and she sees you’re 10 yrs older than the thought?  Not good!

8)  Thou shall not be late on the first date.  Being late is OK, but not too late.  Don’t be early.  But, don’t fret about this one.

9)  Thou shall not act Creepy McCreepy.  See above.

10)  Thou shall not pretend you fell off the face of the earth.  I actually totally agree with this one.  If you aren’t feeling it, let her know.  You don’t want to waste her time or yours.

OK, I hope you found this recap informative and entertaining.  If you want to learn more about meeting women online, check out this free preview of my book here.  What do you think about this article?  Let me know in the comments below.

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Preview My Book For Free!

So, I just released a little Free Preview of my ebook Internet Dating Mastery.  It’s a 30 page PDF book that shows you what’s inside my most popular ebook.  There are even some free chapters where I may have revealed just a little too much 😉

Anyway, to take a sneak peak at my ebook just click the link below:

Internet Dating Mastery – Free Preview

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Poor Results With E-Harmony Cont…

So, I was mentioning before how I really think the Online Dating Site, E-Harmony basically SUCKS!

I talked about how you have to answer a gazillion BORING questions during the sign up process.  Also, they put up all sorts of cumbersome roadblocks on the way to actual communication!

You’ll find that women who don’t quite interest you will send you a list of questions during the “Guided Communication” phase.  Kind of STUPID as the idea is to get to emailing and in person dates as quickly as possible.

Now, the MAJOR flaw with E-Harmony… the so called “key dimensions of personality” matching system!

I find it hard to believe that with all the so called “science” behind this site, that what they came up with is essentially a process of matching guys with women with similar personalities to them.

As you know, I believe in dating a woman who is your opposite in personality type because it adds more spark to the relationship, and it assures that a couple will complement each other nicely.

What I got was a TON of matches who were WAY TO MUCH like me!  I would often log in to see nothing but attorneys, accountants, managers and other typical “Left-brainers” in my matches list.

And this was not what I wanted at all!

I like the outgoing, spontaneous artistic types and I was not getting matched with them!!

SUCKS!  And this is what I paid $50 per month for??  Not good!

I’ll talk about some more EH flaws in another post.

How about you?  What was your opinion of your E-Harmony matches?

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Poor Results With E-Harmony!

So I mentioned in a previous post that I had started using the Online Dating site; E-Harmony to meet women online.

I’m sure you’ve seen their ads and commercials all over the place with claims of people getting married and living happily ever after… all because they met on E-Harmony.

Well, I’m sure some have met through that site but I really doubt the legitimacy of a lot of those claims.

The problem is all the roadblocks this site puts up on the way to real, genuine online communication.

For starters, you have to answer HUNDREDS of questions before you even get your profile up!  This is the famed “key dimensions of personality” that are supposed to match you up with your “Perfect” match.  Well, if you have the patience to get through ALL THAT, then you’ve done pretty good.

Then, the confusion only grows as you try to email one of your “matches.”  You have to send your match a set of questions for them to answer.

This is rather ridiculous as the point of Online Dating is to start emailing as SOON AS POSSIBLE and then takes things OFFLINE soon after that.   But, I would later find out that you CAN actually email women immediately, but it’s not really clear on HOW to do this.

The problems with this website only get worse from there and I’ll continue with my thoughts in another post.

How about you???  If you’ve used E-Harmony, how has your experience been?

BTW, if you found this article helpful, then you REALLY need to check out my TOP SECRET Online Dating Profile.  My email inbox was literally FLOODED with emails within MINUTES after posting this profile!

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Do NOT Use This Subject Line…

So, I was bantering back and forth with a woman I met on Plenty Of Fish and I do what I usually do in a second email and ask her how it’s been going on POF.  She responds that she’s been getting A LOT of “Hey Sexy” emails from guys that obviously have not even read her profile.

Read that again!!   Guys who have “not even read her profile.”

Ok, there are two things wrong here and I think you know what I’m taking about.

First, I’ve said it many times before and I’ll keep saying it until I’m BLUE in the face, do NOT use lame subject lines when emailing women online!!  And yes, “Hey Sexy” is a very LAME email subject line!  There are numerous ways to get a woman’s attention and using really bad, unoriginal subject lines is NEVER the right way to do it.

Secondly, make SURE you always mention something about her profile when emailing her.  This lets her know that you read her profile!!  The days of sending out cut and paste emails to every HOT woman you can find are long gone!  She’ll sniff it out a mile away… So, don’t even think about it.

Anyway, I then responded to this woman saying how AWESOME and original the “Hey Sexy” subject line is and why didn’t I think of that one before… Obvious SARCASM!  She laughs and now we have a meet up this weekend!

So remember, email subject lines are crucial, if not the MOST important component of your emails.  So be sure you get them right!

Want to see a complete list of Email Subject Lines I use to meet women online???

Click Here To See It Right Now

That’s all for now.  I’ll talk to you soon.

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My New Ebook Is Here!

The time has come…

And I just wanted to let you in on some exciting news!

In recent months, I’ve had a lot of guys email me wanting to know why their emails aren’t getting read and responded to when emailing women online.

As you know, this can be a BIG challenge with most men and it’s one I wanted to address specifically.

When I first started out with Online Dating years ago, I had the same exact problem. I would send out TONS of emails daily, and then wonder why I wasn’t getting any responses.

It was VERY frustrating having to see, “Unread Deleted” when I went to check the “read notification” list on any Online Dating Site.

I knew I had to get to the root of the problem!

Well, I would later find out that my emails were NOT GETTING READ in the first place!!

(Believe me, it took a lot of testing and thinking and MORE testing to figure out exactly what was going wrong.)

So after many months, I determined that it was my Email Subject Lines that were NOT doing the job of getting a woman’s attention immediately!

That makes sense because as you know, women are getting bombarded with 50 to 100 emails daily from guys all desperately vying for her time. And if a woman doesn’t see an email that compels her to open it, then she’ll miss it and move on to one that does.

So, the key here is to make sure you use Email Subject Lines that STAND OUT and force her to respond!

Well, I’m proud to say I’ve solved this problem by coming up with a HUGE list of my very BEST email subject lines. I’ve been using them for YEARS to meet Beautiful Women Online and now I’ve decided to share them with you!

I have to admit, I’m a little nervous at the thought of revealing my sneaky little weapons, but I want you to have the success that I currently enjoy with Online Dating.

And the only way to do that is to share with you what works and what works consistently, ALL THE TIME!

So here’s the deal…

I just finished up my brand new ebook called:  “101 Eye-Catching Email Subject Lines For Online Dating”

In it, I’ve included all of my very best email subject lines and I think you really should check it out.

In fact, I’m currently using a lot of the lines in this book right now to meet women online!  They are, afterall timeless – and you’ll be able to use them whenever you want… even years from now!!!

Alright so… to read more about my new ebook, just go here:

I’m VERY excited about it and I hope you will be too!!

It’s been about ten years in the making, and I’m NOT holding anything back!

Here’s the link again:

Check it out and I hope you enjoy it!

I’ll talk to you soon,


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Happy Holidays And A Gift For You!

It’s that time of year again!!

Well, it’s actually my FAVORITE time of year! I always look forward to the end of the year because it means Holidays, great sports on TV, good food, and New Years Festivities!

Ever since I started giving Online Dating advice to guys, I made a commtiment to sending out my annual “Happy Holidays” message to both share some thoughts on what’s going on now, and also what’s coming up next year.

I get a TON of satisfaction out of helping guys who are struggling with the very thing that I struggled with for years…


And I just want you to know that I continue to be 100% totally committed to bettering myself and my products to accomplish that goal.  This year has been no different. In fact, I’ve spent the last few months putting the finishing touches on my brand NEW ebook.  I’m VERY excited about it and I think you will be too!

The title is going to be:

“101 Eye-catching Email Subject Lines For Online Dating”

It’s going to have my FULL ARSENAL of email subject lines I’ve used over the years to meet women online.  I won’t be holding ANYTHING back! This book is literally going to put emailing women on autopilot!  So, expect a launch some time next month.

And that’s not all…

I also have a full blown Online Dating course due out later next year so there will be plenty of excitement in the near future!!  Now, with it being the Holidays and all, I decided to send out a little gift.

From NOW until the end of this year, I’m selling my main ebook “Internet Dating Mastery” at a discounted price!  So, if you’ve been on the fence on whether or not to make a purchase, now is the time because this discount will not last forever!

In order to get it, just go here:

Remember, this sale is only going to last until the end of this year, that’s December 31st, so make sure you take full advantage of it!

That’s all for now.

Happy Holidays, and I’ll talk to you soon!


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Holiday Internet Dating Tips

Here we are approaching the end of the year… again!

Oh, how time flies when you’re busy…

Especially when you are dating plenty of attractive women online.

Recently, I have been meeting my fair share of women online, but it took a while for me to get to this point.

You see, about six months ago I broke up with my Girlfriend of two years.  It wasn’t an easy decision and these kinds of decisions are always tough to make.  It was a relationship that just wasn’t working so something had to be done.

Anyway, it took me a few months before I was ready to date online again.  BTW, I always recommend taking a little break after a serious relationship to “clear your head.”

I know some guys like to get right back out there to try and forget about “her”, but I always found it hard to do that.  One thing’s for sure is that you will NOT be in the right frame of mind if you try and date other women while still hung up on an ex!!  So, just make sure you take that into consideration.

So, as I said, we are approaching the end of the year and here in the US, that means lots and lots of HOLIDAYS!

Not a good time of year to try online dating… you say??

Well, think again!

It’s a great time to get out there and attack those online dating sites!  Think about it.  Women do NOT like to be alone during the holidays.  So, where do you think they’re going to meet guys??

Internet Dating Sites, of course!

If you haven’t gone online and sent out emails lately, then WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR??  Now is the time to take advantage of this situation.

In fact, I’m going to give you a very effective email subject line to use RIGHT NOW!  You know how I like to use compelling and eye-catching subject lines and this one works like a charm.  In fact, my new ebook is going to be ALL ABOUT catchy email subject lines so be sure and keep a look out for it!

So, try this…  Send an email with the following subject line…

“A Friendly Holiday Warning…”

Then, go on to warn her about something that might happen as a direct result of the Holidays.  You have to be clever here.  Be sure and make it HUMOROUS.  Maybe mention more lame guys who might be emailing her and in order to avoid them, she’d better get hitched up with you.

Think about it and see what you come up with.

Now, go online and start sending out those emails!  And be sure and let me know how it goes.

Happy Holidays!

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Is She Looking For A One Night Stand?

I was just skimming some profiles with attractive women on the site, “PlentyOffish” and I come across a woman with some bathing suit pics.  She was rather HOT.  I then go down to read her profile and I just KNEW it was coming…

It never ceases to amaze me how often I see it in these kinds of profiles.

What is it you ask?

It’s this line:

“Also, if your looking for a one night stand PLEASE don’t bother communicating with me. If I wanted a one night stand I could hit the local bar, and skip the messaging process!!”

What is it with women who post sexy pictures of them in bathing suits or skimpy clothing, and then declaring to the world that they’re “NOT LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND?”

Well, STOP POSTING SEXY PICS and you won’t get so many messages from guys looking for one night stands!  Geez!

If you’ve read my book, “Internet Dating Mastery” you already know the SECRET clues in a woman’s profile that will tell you if she’s looking for such a relationship.  Posting revealing pics is only part of the “picture.”

There’s more to it which I won’t go into here.  I just find it funny that I always see this OVER and OVER again!

So, back to browsing profiles.  I’ll let you in on a few more secrets a little later.

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How To Respond To Winks

Ok, a lot of dating sites have a feature where you can “wink” or send some sort of ice breaker to a woman.

Now, I’ve said it before and I’m going to say it again…. DO NOT SEND WINKS TO WOMEN!


Because it shows you have NO balls!  Women complain all the time about guys sending them winks and don’t have the balls to send a message!  Not good… because this shows a lack of confidence.  And you know how women feel about guys who aren’t confident!

But, what if a woman sends YOU a wink??  What do you do?

Well, I have a little line I like to send back that works GREAT for me!  If I get a wink from an attractive woman, I like to send the following message back to her:

“Hey, was that you winking at me from across the room?  Why don’t you come over and introduce yourself! C’mon, don’t be shy!”

See how that works?  It’s short, blunt and puts it back on her to come over and “introduce herself.”

Try it out and let me know how it works!  I think you’ll be surprised!

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Welcome To The New BLOG!

Yes, it’s online!  A new place for your Internet Dating Tips For Men Blog.

I always wanted to make my blog an easier place to navigate for you and other guys and I think I’ve done that.  You’ll see all my articles, posts and comments from my various sites now on this blog serparated and organized into categories.  Just click on the categories on my main blog page to go to that set of posts.

I’ve also put my website into a WordPress platform which makes it easier to update and maintain.

Check out my new products page as well where you’ll see my cool free stuff, as well as new products in the works.

Hope you like it… and don’t forget to add your comments.  I want to hear from you!

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More On Writing Dating Profiles

Let me ask you…

Are you STRUGGLING at meeting women online?

You are?

Well, guess what?

You aren’t alone.

The fact is, MOST men fail at online dating and quit within WEEKS after posting their first online dating profile.

Well, why is that?

Are all women on Internet dating sites that mean? Do they just NOT like men at all?

No, obviously that isn’t the case! After all, we all know some guys that are having a LOT of success with online dating. You’ve heard about them… right?

“Dude!!! I’m getting laid left and right from women I met on What’s your problem??? It’s so easy!”

Well, one of two things is going on there. Either these guys are lying, or they know something the rest don’t. Maybe they searched the net for dating profile examples for men, and found the “perfect dating ad.” Maybe they all look like Brad Pitt.

Well, I’m here to tell you that when it comes to having success with meeting women online, you HAVE to have TWO things right. Screw up either one of them, and you will NOT be meeting ANY women!

The first is your dating profile. This needs to be solid. It needs to really show your personality! The days of laundry lists and facts are LONG GONE! (In fact, I’m not sure these kinds of dating profiles were ever successful.) Women are drawn to EMOTIONS, and in particular mystery and intrigue.

Why do you think romance novels are so popular? Women can’t buy them up fast enough because they CAN’T resist them!

So, making your profile convey a sense of mystery is paramount and you MUST learn how to do it right.

No…copying dating profile examples for men off the internet is NOT going to cut it. Women want to meet YOU, not some guy you are pretending to be.

The next thing you want to do is convey a sense of confidence. Use assertive, commanding language in your profile, BUT don’t overdo it.

Confidence is sexy, cockiness is a turn off!

Finally, show some humor! Online dating should NOT be serious. Show her you have a clever sense of humor. It’s always great to end your profile by poking fun at other guys on internet dating sites.

So, now you know how to write an eye-catching, compelling online dating profile. That’s the all important FIRST step to online dating success.


If you found this article helpful, then you REALLY need to check out my TOP SECRET Online Dating Profile.  My email inbox was literally FLOODED with emails within MINUTES after posting this profile!

Click here to see it RIGHT NOW!

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The BEST Online Dating Photos

So, what are the BEST photos to use in your internet dating profile?

Well, first lets talk about the importance of having good photos and why it’s important.

Imagine that there is a very attractive but lonely woman sitting at her computer and she goes online to search for dating profiles in her area. Bam!! The search results magically appear on her screen. Now, what is the first thing she sees when she looks at a guy’s profile?

Right….  His picture!

See, when she’s looking through her search results, a picture is what’s going to get her attention, at least initially. That’s why it’s VERY important to have a good “Main” picture. Once she sees your pictures, THEN she’ll go on to read your headline and the rest of your profile. You must make a GREAT first impression.

Now, there’s all kinds of advice out there concerning Internet Dating photos and which ones to use. Well, simply put, there’s a right way to approach profile photos and a wrong way. And you want to do it RIGHT the first time.

Now, first let’s go back to what women find most attractive about a guy. Without a doubt, it’s his confidence or attitude and his sense of humor or personality.

Well, we can’t really convey any of those things in our pictures that’s why we use our headlines and the body of our profile to convey our confidence and awesome personality.

OK, so what else do women find attractive?

A man who has STRONG passions, a GREAT lifestyle and is on his mission in life!


THAT, we can show in our pictures!

So, when you first start building your online dating profile, you need to keep this in mind. Ask yourself, “How can I show myself really living it up in my photos?”

Well, the answer is you need to include photos of yourself out enjoying your passions. If you love snowboarding, include some pictures of yourself on the slopes with some friends. If you enjoy sail boating, include some pictures of you out on a boat smiling under the sun.

See where I’m going with this?

Women find men with passions and hobbies VERY attractive and this is why you want to show these things in your pictures.

So, throw in five pictures in your profile. Two of them clearly showing your face and the other three showing you out enjoying your passions.

Why only five?

Because you really don’t need any more than that. If you want to include more, that’s fine but really five is enough. In addition to demonstrating that you have passions and a great life, you also want to show that you know how to take care of yourself and have good fashion sense. This is why you include two pictures of your face and make sure one of them is your main picture.

Remember, women are different from men.

All most men want to see is a HOT, SEXY woman who is fit and attractive. So, as long as we see that in her pictures, we’re good.

But women want to see a man with a healthy lifestyle, passions and lots of friends. Do you ever wonder why women always have LOTS of pictures of them out enjoying their passions? You’ll see traveling pictures, hobby pictures, group photo shots at parties and weddings, etc. That’s because women find these things very important and they make the mistake of thinking men find this attractive in them.

Well, that’s not necessarily the case.

Men are more visual and want to see a pretty face and sexy body first and a fun lifestyle second. Women want to see a fun lifestyle and a guy with passions and plenty of friends first and a cute face and sexy body second.

Make sense?


Now, a few more things about pictures. It’s best to have a friend or family member take pictures of you and then have a female friend judge them. Make sure she is being honest. That’s the best way to get good pictures of yourself! Don’t post them on “rate me” sites. You won’t get an accurate judgment there.

Should you have a professional photographer take pictures of you?

No, I don’t recommend that. I’ve asked several women about that over the years and the consensus is that it makes you seem like you’re trying too hard.

Remember, you want to be yourself in your pictures. If you wear a suit and tie all the time, then show that in your pictures. If you mostly wear jeans and a T-shirt, then show that. Casual is OK!

This should be obvious, but don’t ever include nude pictures of yourself or pics of you with your shirt off flexing in the bathroom mirror. That’s downright cheesy!! And take those pictures with a good camera, not your cell phone!

OK, so that is the formula you’ll want to follow regarding online dating photos. So, go out and post five good pictures and see what happens. I guarantee that you’ll be surprised!


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How To Respond To A Woman’s Internet Dating Profile

So, you see an amazingly HOT woman on  She has great photos and a personality to boot!

She has a great sense of humor and a very dynamic personality.  You can tell she’d be a great addition to your already fulfilling life.  She also lives reasonably close to you.

You just HAVE to respond to her!!!

But how?

As you can imagine, she’s probably getting 50 to 60 emails a day from every guy within a 500-mile radius. She opens her inbox to see a barrage of boring emails with subject lines that all looks the same.

“Hey baby! You’re so fine!”

“Hey, nice guy here. I think you’re cute!”

“Oh my GOD! You’re so beautiful! Please respond to this email!”

“Baby, I want to make you my love muffin!”

And the emails get worse and worse. This is the reality of a beautiful woman on an internet dating site.

And this is GREAT news!  Why?

Because, you are going to be the real MAN that stands out and gets her attention. You’ve already seen her profile and now you MUST find a way to get her eyes on YOU.

How do you do that?

It’s simple.

Have a GREAT subject line in your email. If you don’t have a great subject line then your email will NEVER get read. Simple as that. That’s why we have to put good subject lines in our response.


Now, I like to use subject lines that are ambiguous. Ones that leave her wondering, “What is he talking about?”

Women love a good mystery and nothing is more mysterious then a subject line that has her wondering why you wrote it.  I might write something like:

“Oh my GOD! What are you doing?”

It doesn’t get more mysterious then that! When she sees an email like this in her inbox, you’d better bet that she’s going to open it.

Now, you need to be sure and explain it in your email to her. If you don’t she’ll feel tricked and move on to someone else.  There are many different ways to go here.

I might start off my email like this:

“I mean, here you are sitting there with 50 emails in your inbox and it took you this long to get to mine? I just might forgive you if you’re up for a challenge. “

Then, just continue your email. See how easy that was?

The most important thing is to get her attention right off the bat. Once you do that, you’re in.

So, write down a list of ten creative, eye-catching, and ambiguous subject lines similar to the example above. Then come up with ways to start off an email using each subject line. Once you have your arsenal, you’re ready to respond to all the hot women in your area.


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How To Get Your Online Dating Emails Opened

Let me ask you a few questions…

When you first open up your email inbox, do you instantly know which messages to delete?

If so, how do you know which ones belong in the trash?

Well, if you’re like me, as soon as you go to your inbox you check each email’s subject line, that is if you don’t recognize who it’s from right off the bat.

The subject line will tell you right away whether or not it’s junk mail. If I see anything having to do with Viagra, Cialis, Nigeria, Awards, Gift Cards or Adult sites, then I delete it right away.

So, this means that when you send out emails, the subject line is SUPER important and it must be able to get a woman’s attention in some way if she’s going to open it.

This is especially true since attractive women on internet dating sites get tons of emails from guys every day. These women are just looking for a reason to delete your email right away and if that happens, it’s game over before it starts.

Well, as it turns out, there is one particularly simple and straightforward subject line that WILL get your emails opened every time.

Before I reveal what it is, think about all the subject lines that get your attention. What is it that draws you in and makes you think, “I have to see what this is about!”

Would it be something like:

“Look here, more free stuff!” or “OPEN ME RIGHT NOW!”

Yah, those worked a long time ago, but now, you just delete them.

Well, what if you opened up your email inbox and saw a subject line that simply read:

“bad news…”?

Whoa! That’s right.

You would want to open it right away!

“What do you mean “bad news”? Oh no! I better see what’s wrong!”

You see, that is the subject line that will open emails more quickly then any others.

When you think about it, it makes sense. If you were to open your email inbox and see a subject line that read, “bad news…”, you would immediately think it was from a friend or family member telling you some distressing news. And you would HAVE to open it right away.

So, what are a few good ways to apply this subject line to internet dating? Particularly, sending emails to very attractive women? Well, there are many different ways to do it.

So, I go online and find a profile of a woman who is very attractive and I decide I want to contact her. I write in my subject line:

“bad news…”

Now, I don’t just leave it like that then write something totally unrelated to the subject line. That would be lame and she would delete my email right away.

So I might start it off like this:

“It’s come to my attention that you’re about to reply to the guy above me in your inbox. Did you know that he’s known for proposing to women on the first date? Yes, well good thing I’m here to stop you from making a HUGE mistake! Anyway…”

Then, just go on with your email. See, first I catch her attention with my subject line then I turn it into something humorous at the beginning of my email. I got her attention then put a smile on her face.

This kind of response is GOLD and works for me every time! So, give it a try. Come up with a few subject lines similar to “bad news…” Here are a few off the top of my head:

“Distressing news…”

“I’m afraid I have some bad news…”

“This is unfortunate…”

Then, craft an email similar to the example I used above. Start off explaining the subject line by making it into something humorous. In fact, just use this template:

“It’s come to my attention that you’re about to reply to the guy above me in your inbox. Did you know that he’s known for (insert typical mistake guys on dating sites make)? Yes, well good thing I’m here to stop you from making a HUGE mistake! Anyway…”

And there you go!

Remember, getting those emails opened is crucial to your internet dating success. Once you have that down, you’ll be an Internet Dating Master in no time!!!


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