So, you already know that getting an attractive woman to open your emails is the first crucial step to online dating success. Hot women get bombarded with anywhere between 50 to 100 emails a day from desperate suitors trying to get their attention.

You also already know that your subject line is very important when it comes to getting her to open and read your emails. Typical subject lines like, “Hey baby” aren’t going to cut it because that’s what most other guys are doing.

Now, I was doing some more brain storming the other day and suddenly I came up with another awesome way to get a woman to open my emails. The email subject line I came up with was, “oh no!” That’s it! It simply read, “oh no!” Now, what is a woman going to do when she sees an email with that subject line in her inbox?

She’s going to READ IT FIRST!

Why is that?

Because she has to see what I meant by “oh no.” Did something terrible happen? Is there some sort of terrible news she hasn’t heard yet? My god, what happened?

Well, I think you can see where I’m going with this.

Gentlemen, we have a new subject line for our arsenal.

So, how can we apply this to our internet dating emails? Let’s brainstorm. Here are a few ways to follow up this subject line:

Oh no! You are about to make a huge mistake!

Oh no! Why are you wasting so much time with these guys?

Oh no! All these boring emails from guys just looking for a one-night stand! What’s the deal?

On no! The guy above you is married and looking for an online fling!

So, we have many different directions we can go with this subject line. Let’s try this:

Subject: Oh no!

Email: Here we have a beautiful Sunday morning and you’re stuck wading through an ocean of boring emails from guys who JUST AREN’T YOUR TYPE! I mean, I know a guy with a profile headline that reads; “single cool dude for big booty girl” really gets your juices flowing but it’s time to take a break! Your day is about to get a whole lot better. Anyway…

There you go! Just a rough draft but I guarantee it will get the job done!

You take the subject line, “oh no” and then you address it in the first part of your email making it clever and humorous. I like to bust guys on dating sites, especially ones that have horrible profile headlines like the one above.

Then just continue on with your email.

In the example above, you’ll want to send it to her on a Sunday morning and of course you can tweak it to fit your situation any way you want. In fact, here’s another great tip.

Go on any free online dating site and search through the “men seeking women” profiles. Find a profile with a REALLY lame headline and refer to it in your email to a woman on that site. Chances are she’s seen it and she’ll laugh her ass off when she reads your email.

Go for it! Give it a try and I guarantee your emails WILL get opened quickly!

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OK, so you’ve finally done it…

You wrote up an awesome online dating profile, sent emails to all the attractive women you can find and you finally found a woman you REALLY Dig! Now, it’s time to make the move…

It’s time to meet her in person!

Now, I’m assuming you did all the right things when emailing her. You built plenty of rapport and got her VERY excited to meet you. This is very important when meeting women online. If you made the mistake of “half-assing” the whole thing, you’ll find yourself with a woman who doesn’t have any desire to meet you. And the inevitable game of phone tag begins…And you never meet her in person.

Now, let’s assume it’s going to happen. During your phone conversation you DID remember to set up a meet… Right? That’s why you are doing online dating! To meet women live and in person.

You don’t want to get caught in a frustrating game of “trying to nail her down.” If that’s what is happening, then chances are you did something wrong in your emails and she doesn’t REALLY want to meet you.

So, to make sure that doesn’t happen, you HAVE to nail down a time and place for that first date at the END of the FIRST phone call. Read that again to make sure it sinks in! DO NOT get stuck doing phone tag. That sucks!

So, when is a good time to meet her? Is there a perfect time and day? Yes, there is. And that time is…as soon as possible!

Do you understand what I’m saying? You want to get her off emails and phone calls and IN PERSON as quickly as you can so you can start having face to face conversations. You don’t want to waste time and neither does she.

What I’m saying is, you need to set up a meet within a few days of that first phone call. I don’t care if it’s on a weekend or not. You may have heard some guys tell you to avoid weekends to give the impression that you are busy and have a life.

This is BAD ADVICE! I know from experience because I used to play those games. And what happened? I ended up screwing myself. If you try to delay things for any reason, you’ll KILL all the momentum you built up in emails and phone calls. It’s SUPER important to keep it going. That’s why you want to meet up as quickly as possible. You’re a man and you take the lead on things. You call the shots and you get things moving! This is how you want to do it. Trust me!

So, next time you meet a woman off the internet, take it offline as SOON as possible!

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So, you’ve sent an email to a woman you REALLY dig. It was one of your BEST emails, one that will surely catch her attention. You wait a few days for her response and… nothing.

You wait a few more days and still no response.  So, you send her your standard, “no response” email. She’s sure to respond to that one.  Once again, you wait for her response. Then a few days later, FINALLY, there’s her email in your inbox!

She responded! You read her message which says,

“Hi, so sorry about not getting back to you. Things have been really hectic around here. Unfortunately, I don’t think we are a good match.”

Take care,

(name)

Ah, there it is… The “take care” message that so many women send. I would swear they all belong to some underground woman’s group that came up with this “take care” message as their standard response. Kind of like a woman’s standard fake number she hands out at bars and clubs.

If you’ve been involved in online dating for any length of time, I’m sure you’ve seen this response.  So, how do you respond?  Well, here’s what you DON’T do.  You definitely want to AVOID getting all mad and sending her an angry response.

Here’s one that women get all the time:

“You know, I don’t know how you can reject someone you haven’t even met in person. You don’t even know me. We could have been a great match. Next time, why don’t you give a guy a chance..”

There it is. Angry response from angry guy!  What does the above message say about angry guy?

It says,

“I’m angry, rejected and I’m putting too much importance on what you think of me. I don’t have a whole lot going on in my life so I was hoping you would like me. I feel so bad about you rejecting me that I’m going to try and get you back by shaming you.”

See, how silly that is? No woman on an internet dating site should have that kind of power over you. It doesn’t do any good to get angry and try and “get her back.” That’s a waste of time and energy.

Instead, send her something like this:

“Hey, no problem! I’ve got thick skin. Anyway, good luck out there. You’re going to need it.”

Says all the right things about you and it’s rather ambiguous with the “you’re going to need it” comment at the end. She’ll be dying to know what you mean by that… it might even get her coming back to you.

Try it and let me know what happens.

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Have you ever been on a date with a woman you met online and you just didn’t “feel it?”

I know I have. In fact, when I was first starting out with online dating I was getting increasingly frustrated at my inability to meet one of the “good ones.” I would go on date after date with VERY attractive women only to ultimately fail at making a true, lasting connection with most of them.

Well, I knew something had to change. Was it me? Was I just not compatible with any women? No, that couldn’t be the case! After all, I had been in relationships with women before and things worked just fine. So why is it so HARD to meet the right woman from the Internet?

Well, that’s when it hit me like a ton of bricks… Screening!! I’m not screening correctly. In other words, I’m not really seeing a woman for who she is in her profile. If I’m not seeing what she’s really about before meeting her, then chances are, we’ll have a hard time making a connection in person. I need to screen women based on their profiles before I email them. Then my results will improve!

So, I had to take a long look at myself and figure out whom I really want. What are the qualities I most admire in a woman? Was there anyone I dated in the past where things really clicked? What was she like?

Well, based on my experiences, I was able to come up with a woman who is JUST my type. She has to be attractive with dark features. OK, that’s the physical stuff but there needs to be something deeper. She needs to have a certain personality type that’s different from mine. She must be my opposite.

Wow, that’s it!! All the women I’ve ever dated have been my opposite in personality type. Doesn’t really make sense but that’s when things worked out the best. I’m more of a quiet, analytical kind of guy. Well, I’m an engineer so that makes sense. Most of the women I’ve dated who I really liked were more outgoing and spontaneous. I always like a woman with a sense of adventure and creative flair. Well, then that is exactly what I need to be looking for online!

After I realized it was more about personality than anything else, I learned how to screen women in the correct way. Here I was focusing on trivial things like common interests and hobbies, when those things really didn’t matter at all.

Ever gone on a date with a woman who was JUST LIKE YOU. You thought she was your soul mate because she also loved sports, Volkswagens and rock climbing but it still didn’t work out??

Well, here’s why. She wasn’t your opposite in personality type. Opposites compliment each other and that’s why they get along so well.

So, next time you go online looking for HOT babes, you need to put things like hobbies and common interests on the back burner. Unfortunately, most Internet dating sites use these things to match people, which is totally wrong. Instead, really look at her profile and determine her personality. It’s not as tough as you think. Look at her writing style. Look at her pictures. If you look closely enough you will finally “see” her.

Once you become good at screening for your type, you’ll become a true Internet dating master in no time!

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Let me ask you…

Are you STRUGGLING at meeting women online?

You are?

Well, guess what?  You aren’t alone.  The fact is, MOST men fail at online dating and quit within WEEKS after posting their first online dating profile.

Well, why is that?  Are all women on Internet dating sites that mean?  Do they just NOT like men at all?

No, obviously that isn’t the case!  After all, we all know some guys that are having a LOT of success with online dating.  You’ve heard about them… right?

Dude!!!  I’m getting laid left and right from women I met on Match.com.  What’s your problem???  It’s so easy!

Well, one of two things is going on there.  Either these guys are lying, or they know something the rest don’t.  Maybe they searched the net for dating profile examples for men, and found the “perfect dating ad.”

Maybe they all look like Brad Pitt.

Well, I’m here to tell you that when it comes to having success with meeting women online, you HAVE to have TWO things right.  Screw up either one of them and you will NOT be meeting ANY women!

The first is your dating profile.  This needs to be solid.  It needs to really show your personality.  The days of laundry lists and facts are LONG GONE!  (In fact, I’m not sure these kinds of dating profiles were ever successful.)

Women are drawn to EMOTIONS and in particular mystery and intrigue.

Why do you think romance novels are so popular?  Women can’t buy them up fast enough because they CAN’T resist them.

So, making your profile convey a sense of mystery is paramount and you MUST learn how to do it right.  No, copying dating profile examples for men off the internet is NOT going to cut it.  Women want to meet YOU, not some guy you are pretending to be.

The next thing you want to do is convey a sense of confidence.  Use assertive, commanding language in your profile, BUT don’t overdo it.  Confidence is sexy, cockiness is a turn off!

Finally, show some humor!  Online dating should NOT be serious.  Show her you have a clever sense of humor.  It’s always great to end your profile by poking fun at other guys on internet dating sites.

So, now you know how to write an eye-catching, compelling online dating profile.  That’s the all important FIRST step to online dating success.

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Let me ask you…

Are You Frustrated with online dating?

If you’re like most guys, you are.  You’re tired of not meeting ATTRACTIVE women from online dating sites.

I mean, who wants to pay $30 a month with no results?  Right?

Believe me, I know how frustrating it can be… I’ve been there and I struggled with it for years.  I thought I would NEVER be able to meet the woman of my dreams online.

When I first started online dating, women were ignoring ALL my profiles and emails.  In fact, I would often send out 10 to 20 emails A DAY and get NO responses.  It was crazy!  And I wasn’t exactly the kind of guy to go out and approach hot women in bars and clubs so online dating was my only option at the time.

Well, one day everything turned around for me.  After lots of painful trial and error, I realized that I was making the SAME mistakes over and over again.  And once I stopped making these mistakes, I was meeting women left and right.  In fact, I actually had to STOP sending out emails because my plate was full.  That’s how dramatically things changed for me!

As it turns out, most guys are still making these mistakes and they don’t even know it.  It’s no wonder most guys give up within a MONTH after signing up to online dating sites.

What are these mistakes?

1)       First, they write bland/boring dating profiles.  Their profiles just don’t stand out.  They aren’t using compelling headlines and they aren’t showing any emotion!  They just list facts and the end result is a stale, boring profile with NO excitement.

2)      Second, they don’t know how to email women in a way that GETS THEIR ATTENTION.  Again, their subject lines don’t stand out and they don’t get how to communicate the Secret Language that women respond to.  If you don’t know how to email women the right way, you WON’T succeed at online dating.

3)      Third, they don’t know how to respond to women who email THEM first.  This is also critical!  Most guys get all excited and totally screw it up.  When women email you, it’s a totally different dynamic and you HAVE to know how to handle it.

So, those are the three main online dating mistakes.

Now, how do you write a dating profile that compels women to respond???

Well, first let’s look at how NOT to write a dating profile.  When I first got into online dating, I wrote up a profile that I’m not really proud of.  In fact, it’s downright embarrassing.  But, I need to show it to you so you’ll understand.  Just promise me you won’t laugh… OK?

Ok, here it is:

Subject:  “Nice Guy Here!!”

Body:  “Hello out there!  Well, I just joined this site and I’m not too sure what to write but here goes.  I’m just a simple guy.  I like hanging out with my friends and traveling to cool places.  I’ve found that it’s so hard to meet women in my area so I thought I’d try online dating.  Anyway, it’s always so hard to write stuff about myself so if you like what you see, maybe we can go out on a date sometime.

(Please I’m not very confident and NEED your approval.  Will you love me??)”

Ok, I didn’t really include that last line, but I might as well have.  So, there it is.  Painful, I know…

That was my first really lame attempt at writing a dating profile.

So, what’s wrong with this profile?  Well, first of all it looks like it’s coming from a kid and not a man.  There’s no real confidence there and no humor, at least not intentional.  It’s like I’m trying to seek her approval in every line.  I’m unsure about myself, I’m uncomfortable in my own skin, basically I’m just a total wuss.  That’s NOT attractive to women.

Ok, so how do you do it right?

Well, I’ve come up with what I call my Secret Formula for writing dating profiles.  It’s a formula I’ve been using for years and it NEVER fails me.

1)      First, you must start off humorous.  Get her emotions going right off the bat.  This does two things; it gets her attention right away AND it makes her want to read more.

2)      Second, you need to convey your confidence.  Use strong, assertive language as you state who you are and what you want making NO apologies for either.  This will be in the middle part of your profile.

3)      Finally, you finish off with more humor.  This gets her laughing again and you get out on a high note.  Always good for showmanship. You do this by telling a brief funny story or my favorite, make fun of other guys on the site.  I might write something like:  “Believe me you want nothing to do with the guy below me, he still lives with his Mother.”   Or something like that.

So, that is my Secret Formula for writing dating profiles.

Now, get out there and write your own dating profile using this formula.  I guarantee you’ll start seeing results FAST!

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So, I was browsing online dating articles and came across a very interesting one called, “Online dating sites are a treasure trove for scientists.”

Check it out here:

Online Dating Article

Some highlights:

“Men most often make the first move, sending that first “wink” or e-mail. They’re also more likely to respond to women’s queries and quicker to write back. Women are more choosy; in one study, they responded to only 16 percent of messages. And they take longer to respond.”

(This is why your emails must STAND OUT and get attention! This study claims women respond to only 16% of messages. With those odds, you had better get noticed!)

“Appearance matters. Men say a photograph is the dominant predictor of whether they’ll connect. Women like photographs but also value the self-descriptive narrative in profiles.

(Of course men choose women based on photos, we’re MEN! But… women aren’t as focused on appearances, it’s more about your profile! This is why it’s important to craft a clever, compelling dating profile like the ones I provide in my Ebook; “Internet Dating Mastery.”)

“What’s attractive? Men who look “genuine,” “extroverted” but not “overly warm or kind;” women who look “feminine, “high in self-esteem” and “not selfish.”

(I always recommend including photos of yourself out with friends, as it will make you look more “extroverted.” Now why would women NOT want guys to look “overly warm or kind?” Women may see that as appearing desperate, or not being very confident. It’s crucial that you don’t make these mistakes.)

Anyway, good read. Check it out.

So, I was just going through my email inbox and I come across a message from a “woman” who “saw my profile” on an online dating site and wanted to email me.  Here is what she wrote and… note the attached pic:

“Hello dear friend…

I see your profile on a dating site And both decided to write to you.My name: Anastasiya To me 29 years old. I am single. My growth 175 sm and weight 50 kg.was born on July, 26th, 1981. I wish you had warned once. I search for serious attitudes. I am looking for marriage and love. I do not play games. If you want toplay with me, then do not write for me. If you are looking also for true and pure attitude then I shall wait with impatience your letter. I send you as pictures, and I hope to receive your replacement.Forgive me please, but I should go. I wish you wrote for me more than I knew more about you.”

Anastasiya

Wow, I’m so excited to have such a down to earth, and HOT chick writing to me!!  I better get back to her right now!!

Not!!

I’m sure you’ve seen this scam garbage before.  I know I have.  In fact, I fell for it once and exchanged several emails with one of these “women”, that ultimately ended with “her” asking me for $$$ for a plane ticket.  Not good!  (You can read the whole story in my book “Internet Dating Mastery”.)

Needless to say, if you see something like this in your inbox, hit the DELETE BUTTON QUICKLY!  You’ll be glad you did.

WOW, I just came across a profile from a woman on POF that deserves a mention!

It’s actually a woman I wrote previously, but she hadn’t yet responded. I checked out her profile again recently and she had changed her write up a bit… Sit back, relax and enjoy:

“Because everything I write seems to offend you guys, I just erased my entire profile.

First off,  you can’t say things like “looking for a beautiful, smart, honest woman”, when you are 1.ugly as hell,2. dumb as hell, and 3.a freakin liar..It’s like who do guys think you are?

Oh yeah..and being broke is pretty bad too. Guys, look at who you are looking at before you send some common ass message randomly to any pretty girl..uhhh yea..desperate..You don’t have the right to just email any girl that you gotta know is out of your league.

You have to know…and if you don’t, then you are either dreaming or..let me re-iterate “STUPID”. What the hell are you thinking? I’m saying this because I have 83 new messages and they are all DORKS! Jesus..and if you think this is offensive..then you are not the guy for me..if you think I am approachable..you’re on my level and we can see about something.

Confidence is GREAT! But some of you are just plain stupid. Oh yea, it’s also pretty lame to try and get at a girl and when she denies you, you talk shit, like “you’re not all that” and what was it one guy said to me “you’re ugly anyway with your bushy ass eyebrows” LMFAO…losers.

I’m really not trying to talk shit, but RECOGNIZE…if you are sending me a message, check yourself and don’t waste my time. I might sound stuck up, but that’s not it…just sick of being hit on by idiots everywhere I go..If you know you are NOT an idiot, send me a message…

I’m really, a sweet girl. I mean c’mon guys, wouldn’t you get sick of nasty, low class, broke ass broads with 3 kids hitting you up? But, I guess what can you expect from this lame ass site.

Now, sorry for that but I think I’m gonna delete this anyway. I can just tell you a little about me and try and keep an open mind.

My name is Angrygirl, I’m 29 and live in Angry Town, USA. I can say that I am well rounded, smart, caring, loyal and honest, not to mention confident and very independent. I am not sure that I am necessarily looking for anything, but instead, just sitting back and maybe seeing if unexpectedly I will be pleasantly surprised by someone who fits my standards.

Yes, I have standards and I don’t think I’m asking too much, but I’m not going to list them, because, like I said, I try to keep an open mind. I can take care of myself and am definitely not wanting someone to, by any means, try and do that for me; just someone who will be honest and always have my back to the fullest and I promise I got yours too! Hit me up if you have any questions, or anything to say other than “hey sexy”..it gets old.”

Thanks

Ok, now I’m not going to bash this poor woman, because God knows, she’s been through enough in her life.

The reason I’m showcasing this profile is that I want to illustrate a few points.

1)  “I’m saying this because I have 83 new messages and they are all DORKS!” (I’ve always said… women get TONS of messages from guys everyday, and it’s pretty evident what kind of messages she’s getting.  Most guys write LAME, terrible messages to women, and this is why they aren’t seeing any positive results with online dating.)

2)  “You don’t have the right to just email any girl that you gotta know is out of your league.” (As you know, there are NO women who are “out of your league.”  That is something fabricated in your head and you can’t let it become a permanent belief.  She considers guys with certain “looks” out of her league, but actually, she’s referring to something far more important.  Which leads to…)

3)  “Confidence is GREAT! But some of you are just plain stupid. Jesus..and if you think this is offensive..then you are not the guy for me..if you think I am approachable..you’re on my level and we can see about something.”

( Very interesting!!  What is she saying here?  Basically, she’s saying she wants a MAN.  I’ve never seen a woman illustrate this point quite this way, but it’s very telling.  Confidence is always sexy to women and she considers a guy who can take her crap.. as more of a man.  And that guys who see her as “approachable” are “on her level.”  Meaning, if you have the balls to approach her, then you are exactly what she needs in that moment.)

Ok, so lets wrap up this little lesson.

As far as this woman goes and her issues, I’m going to take the high road here.  Obviously, she has a lot of problems with maturity and other issues.  And don’t get me wrong, this is NOT a woman I’d want to date.

But, if we put that aside, we can see that a Confident man is always what women seek.  We also see that the competition out there is very weak and if you write emails using the strategies I teach, you will stand out from the crowd.

Finally, don’t ever EVER take online dating too seriously or become “Angry Guy.” It’s just not worth it and you are showing women that you aren’t a real man.

Hope you got something out of this.  I’ll be in touch soon!

In order to succeed at Online Dating, it is absolutely critical that you know how to write a dating profile that stands out and gets attention!  Chances are, all the online dating advice you’ve been receiving is DEAD WRONG!  If you’ve been following bad advice, then you won’t be meeting any beautiful women online.

In the following video, I show you the Secret Formula I use to write online dating profiles that COMPEL women to respond! I also reveal one of my most embarrassing moments when I first started dating online. (I hope you don’t laugh.)

Just click play below to check it out:

How to write a dating profile

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I just finished a really cool video where I explain how to write an online dating profile that really STANDS OUT and gets ATTENTION!  Nothing is more important than making sure your profile is MUCH different then all the other ones out there.  If you want to get that HOT woman to check out your profile, then you need to see this video.  Just click to play.

How To Write A Dating Profile

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If you ever want to turn a woman OFF quickly, there’s no better way than to start being needy.

I have a real life example I’d like to share:

My sister’s best friend is a VERY attractive woman in her late 30′s.  She’s currently divorced and is basically, back in the dating scene.  Anyway, she recently went on a trip to the East coast to visit her father who is ill and in the hospital.

As it happens, she met a young guy who was one of the medics there.  They REALLY hit it off and immediately decided to start dating.

Now, the two of them live on opposite sides of the country but they didn’t care about that at the time.  So, once this woman came home from her trip, she gets a phone call from the young guy who says he’s coming out to visit her.  (Normally not a big deal, but…. this guy had NO other reason for going across the country except to see a woman he just met.)

Around this time my Sister invites me over for dinner to see her friend’s new “Boyfriend.”  I came over and she told me about how he is just here for a visit and will be going back home in a few days.  I met him.  He was cool and I noticed he tended to follow his new flame around constantly wanting to be affectionate with her.

It was at this time, and upon learning that he flew across the country to see a woman he just met, that I said to myself, “This is NOT going to happen!  They’ll split up in less than a month.”

So, I recently just got back from a visit to my Sister’s and asked her how it’s going with them.  She told me that her friend thinks he’s nice, BUT he’s a little too needy… AND she’s no longer returning his calls and texts.

How did I know?  How did I call it??

Well, I’ve made that very same mistake myself.  Not only the neediness thing, but I once flew down to see a woman I just met in my hometown.  She KNEW I was coming down ONLY TO SEE HER.

What happened??

Once I got down there, she didn’t return my calls!

What’s going on here?  Simply put, women are totally and completely TURNED OFF by needy behavior.

Why?  Because it shows a lack of confidence!

And, what is the ONE thing women find most sexy in a guy?

Confidence!

So, the lesson here is, do NOT become needy and obsessed upon meeting a HOT girl!  If you want to visit her, HAVE ANOTHER REASON FOR GOING TO HER AREA!

Call her up and say:

“Hey, you know -  I’m going to be in your neck of the woods next week because I have to (visit a friend/attend a seminar/go there for work) and why don’t I give you a call while I’m over there and maybe we’ll meet for a drink?”

It conveys confidence and shows you have other things going on besides trying to meet up with her.

All VERY important stuff!

Remember, neediness KILLS attraction.

Confidence AMPLIFIES it.

I was just browsing around a dating advice forum and I saw a post from a guy who had an Online Dating challenge similar to what a LOT of guys face…

Here is what he said:

“I just started emailing back and forth with a woman I met online. After the third email, I thought its time to move this to setting up a date and meet face to face so I suggested we exchange pics, in which I initiated and attached a picture.

I didn’t hear back for 10 days and our communication has been such that we respond within 2-3 days. I sent her a quick “hmmm are you getting shy on me? ” reply at which she replied: “Hey, just been really busy with work and family. I’ll msg you when things calm down.”

Normally I would just think ok the girl is busy I’ll just email some other chicks in the meantime. But I decided to call out what my intincts were telling me. So I did something I would never had done before, I emailed her back with this:

“Hey….I have a hunch that maybe your not interested in further communication just from you suddenly becoming “busy” and the reply you gave me.

An email doesn’t take alot of time even if your really busy, If that’s the case just be an adult about it and say that, its not a big deal. I don’t expect anything from you but I do expect honesty. I’m the type of person to be pretty direct, however if your genuinely interested in continuing chatting that’s cool.”

My Comments:

Oh, GREAT Caesar’s Ghost!!

I didn’t see whether or not this woman responded to his email but it’s safe to assume she bolted rather quickly! OK, what happened here? Well, this guy made SEVERAL critical mistakes and I don’t know where to begin.

First of all, ALWAYS make sure you have exchanged pics prior to any some online dating sites where you don’t have to post your picture, but it should be a requirement by now. Always know WHO you are talking to up front!

With that said, let’s move on. He sent her his picture and suddenly, things got really stagnant. He then sent her his; “Are you getting shy on me email” which really wasn’t too bad, BUT… Her response to that is what should have signaled the end of his pursuit!

“Hey, just been really busy with work and family. I’ll msg you when things calm down.”

Translation:

“I’m not really feeling it for you but I don’t want to say it, so I’ll give you this little clue and hopefully you’ll go away.”

I’ve seen it SO MANY times in my years dating online.

It’s similar to the “Take Care” email I talk about in my book. Basically, it means “game over.” Move onto other women and start sending out emails.

Well, this guy didn’t do that. Instead he sent an “angry guy” email. He DEMANDED honesty, and “how could she play around with him like this if she’s not interested?”

I also talk about the “Angry Guy” email in my book. It’s a common response from a guy who takes online dating TOO personally and tries to shame women for not being honest with him. Instead of just blowing it off and moving on, he sends her a DIRECT and STERN email, laying down the rules.

BIG MISTAKE! I’ve done this before too. It DOES NOT work! The best thing to do is move on. Also, a confident guy would NEVER send this kind of email to a woman. He assumes that every woman he emails is interested. He doesn’t need verification that she’s NOT.

So, remember this next time you get a similar response from a woman.

I’ve found myself single once again and it’s time to go fishing.

Before, I always focused my online dating efforts on sites such as match.com and Yahoo Personals, but I’ve recently plunged into Plentyoffish, one of the more popular free online dating sites.

There are things I like and things I don’t.  Of course it being a free site is a good thing but with that comes drawbacks such as annoying advertising on most pages.  Advertisers are getting rather clever too with ad placement and appeal.  The other day I logged in to see who had “viewed me” and at the end of the row was a HOT looking woman, but upon further review I noticed this was an ad that looked similar to profile search results.

Crap!!

But, I DO like the women I’m seeing around there and I’ve already had some GREAT results after posting a brand new online dating profile.

Typical responses to my profile include:

“Thanks for making me laugh” or  “Your profile was so funny, the scary thing is that really happens!”

The latter was referring to a line at the end of my profile where I simply state:

“So, stop reading and start writing.  Besides, I KNOW you want nothing to do with the other guys around here.  I hear they are known for proposing to women on the FIRST date.  Yikes!!” So, I’ll start sending out messages too using some subject lines from my upcoming new ebook; “101 eye-catching email subject lines.” I’ll have plenty to choose from!

One more thing, almost EVERY woman I saw on there has some “requirements” at the end of her profile which say you must meet in order to message her.  POF has created this I suppose in an effort to match people more closely. And one of the requirements is almost always, “must not be looking or HAVE SEARCHED FOR casual hookups.”

So, keep this in mind when going fishing over there.

I will, of course, keep you updated on my experiences on Plentyoffish.

Stay tuned…

Here is a little Free Report I put together that I think you’re going to like.  It’s called “The Secret To Meeting beautiful Women Online.”  Download it right here:

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Enjoy!

I just ran across a very funny article about a crafty new subject line some guys are using when writing to women on internet dating sites.

Check it out here:

Internet Dating Article

My advice??? Obviously, don’t do it!

Some guys are too much!  lol

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Happy New Year!

Yes, with the arrival of the new decade, comes the arrival of more beautiful women to online dating websites around the world!

I just read that January is the busiest time of the year for online dating.  Men and Women are joining in HUGE numbers and you know what that means?

It means it’s time to get off your ass and start putting together that profile you’ve been putting off.  It’s time to start responding to as many women as possible because NOW IS THE TIME to reach them in great numbers!

You know what?

During the last month I’ve had more views and responses to my online dating profile than almost all of last year.  Blew me away!

I guess it makes sense since this is supposedly a HOT time for internet dating.

So, get on it and start taking action.  The holidays are over, the new year is here and it’s time to meet someone.  And just so you know I’ve reduced the price of my ebook, Internet Dating Mastery so if you want to get a good deal on it, now is the time.

Make this year your BEST!

So, you browsed around on a very popular online dating site and checked out all those stunningly attractive women and you just can’t wait to fire off witty emails to get their attention.

Right?

Or, you’ve written up what you think is an AWESOME profile and its time to submit it online and wait for a flood of responses.

Hold on!

Don’t you dare sign up to ANY Internet dating sites or write any profiles because you have something very important to do first.

What is it you ask?

Well, you HAVE to get you head on straight!

Let me ask you some questions…

Did you just get out of a very serious relationship that ended badly?

Are you freshly divorced or separated?

Are you out to replace your ex as SOON as possible to fill a certain void in your life?

If you answered “yes” to any of the above questions, then do me and every woman who has a dating profile a favor… and just wait!

That’s right, just wait and take the time to get your life together and your issues resolved.

The reason is if you go out and start dating online and don’t have your life together, then you are setting yourself up for failure. Do you think a beautiful, attractive, high quality woman wants to deal with a guy who still has issues and can’t let go of an ex?

Of course not!

And the whole reason for getting into Internet dating is to attract a high quality woman for YOU, right?

Now, if you go online and spew your venom and insecurities all over the place, who do you think you are going to attract?

Yep, another woman with the SAME issues.

Why is this? Because like attracts like when it comes to maturity and character. Take a moment and think back to all the women you’ve dated over the years. Got it? Good!

Now, which ones were a total pain in the butt?

I’m talking “SCREAM in your face every time you look at another woman” kind of pain in the butt?

Hm, if you’re like me, there were a lot of them.

OK, now try and think back to what state of mind YOU were in at the time. Were things going well for you?

Was your self-esteem intact? Did you really feel good about yourself?

Maybe not, huh?

During the last ten years I’ve met a lot of women online and one thing I’ve found is that when I don’t have my life together, I seem to attract the most super ultra high drama queens imaginable. And the relationship never lasts…

And I wasted a lot of time.

I don’t want you to waste your time. I want you to find a HIGH QUALITY woman who will be right for YOU.

So, before you go online and start corresponding with anyone, take a LONG look in the mirror and ask yourself…

Am I ready?

Do I have it together?

Once you do the work to get these issues resolved, I GUARANTEE that you will have better results meeting high quality women online.

And that’s what it’s all about!

Right?

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What do you think is the MOST frustrating part of online dating???

What do you HATE the most about it?

I’ll bet you don’t have to think too hard about it because I’m guessing that you find “getting women to respond to your emails” the MOST frustrating!

Am I right?

Well, I know because I’ve been there. I remember the days of sending out multiple emails to every HOT woman I could find, only to be rejected again and again and AGAIN!

Sucks!

After all, what’s the point of even spending all this time with internet dating if you can’t get women to view or respond to your emails??

Right?

Well, I’ve got news for you…

Did you know that most of the women you are emailing aren’t even OPENING your messages?

It’s true!

Now, if most women aren’t opening your messages then they definitely can’t write you back!

No, these women aren’t “rejecting” you for being too bald, too short, too old, or too fat…

They aren’t even SEEING your emails in the first place!

A woman can’t reject someone she doesn’t know exists… right?

This is good news!

Now, what you need to do is make sure women are opening your emails. As you know, attractive women are getting bombarded with emails from guys every hour of every day and you better BELIEVE that they are going to delete ones that don’t get their attention… FAST!

So, what is it that determines whether or not a woman will open your email?

It comes down to ONE thing:

Your email subject line!

If you are using a dating site that also displays a user’s picture with the message then she will see that too but your email subject line is the single MOST important part of your message and if you want your emails read… you had BETTER get it right!

No, lines like, “Hey baby” or “Hi” aren’t going to cut it.

If you use one of those subject lines, your email will be deleted immediately!

Well lucky for you, I’ve come up with a way of making sure your emails will get opened and read EVERY TIME! It’s really not that hard to do and you’ll be kicking yourself for not learning this sneaky little trick sooner. It involves using mystery and ambiguity in your subject lines. Women can’t resist this! It drives them NUTS!

Imagine sending an email with the following subject line:

“Wait! You’re about to MAKE a HUGE mistake! Don’t do it!”

Now, when ANY woman comes across an email with that subject you can be SURE she’s going to open it.

The next part is crucial!

You have to follow it up in your email in a way that makes sense. Don’t just launch into your message without explaining the subject line. You have to be clever here… Say something like:

“…Don’t open that message from the guy above me unless you enjoy bicycle dates. He doesn’t own a car. Anyway…”

That’s just one of many messages I’ve sent to women and they just EAT IT UP!

What does it do?

First, it gets their attention… very important!

Second, it shows that I have a sense of humor. Also SUPER IMPORTANT. Most guys don’t use ANY humor in their emails to attractive women because they are so scared of them.

Finally, it shows I have confidence and I’m NOT afraid to express who I am! Super important!

Try it out and let me know how it goes!

Ok, I’ve been looking at some profiles that guys are sending and I realized it’s time to send out a list of things to NOT include on your online dating profile. Hope this helps:

• Do not show a picture of yourself wearing a “World of Warcraft” T-shirt. Need I say more?
• “I love to curl up on a rainy day and read a good book, cuddle, and take long walks on the beach.” Yes, women like to do these things, but they don’t want to hear that from you. Women want a REAL man!
• Any picture with your shirt off. It’s CHEEZY and not what women want to see in a guy’s profile. She wants to see her boyfriend with his shirt off, not you!
• Weird stuff like: “Hey my name’s Joe, but the ladies call me stud muffin.” This is a HUGE turn off and quite lame!
• Self-deprecating humor. (Making fun of yourself.)
• Showing you have money.“In my spare time, I love cruising around in my Porsche.” Trying way TOO hard! Do you want the kind of woman who is impressed by this?? I think not!
• Being too unavailable.“I work 60-70 hours per week.”Woman thinks: “You will not have time for me.”
• Profile that’s too long. Always be MYSTERIOUS! Saying too much kills attraction! She shouldn’t have to scroll down to read your write up.
• Too many/not enough pictures. You only need 5 pics. A. One head shot where the girl can clearly see your face. No sunglasses, hats, etc. It shows you’re trying to hide something. B. A picture of you doing something fun. Perhaps one of your hobbies? C. A picture of you out with friends.D. More of B and C!
• Show a CONFIDENT writing style! Do NOT use passive language.

So, there you go. Constructing a magnetic profile that attracts quality women isn’t so hard if you follow the rules above. Post comments and tell me what you think.

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