Internet Dating Tips For Men

Interesting Online Dating Article

So, I was browsing online dating articles and came across a very interesting one called, "Online dating sites are a treasure trove for scientists."

Check it out here:
 
Online Dating Article

Some highlights:

"Men most often make the first move, sending that first "wink" or e-mail. They're also more likely to respond to women's queries and quicker to write back. Women are more choosy; in one study, they responded to only 16 percent of messages. And they take longer to respond." 

(This is why your emails must STAND OUT and get attention!  This study claims women respond to only 16% of messages.  With those odds, you had better get noticed!)

"Appearance matters. Men say a photograph is the dominant predictor of whether they'll connect. Women like photographs but also value the self-descriptive narrative in profiles.   

(Of course men choose women based on photos, we're MEN!  But... women aren't as focused on appearances, it's more about your profile!  This is why it's important to craft a clever, compelling dating profile like the ones I provide in my Ebook; "Internet Dating Mastery.")

"What's attractive? Men who look "genuine," "extroverted" but not "overly warm or kind;" women who look "feminine, "high in self-esteem" and "not selfish."   

(I always recommend including photos of yourself out with friends, as it will make you look more "extroverted."  Now why would women NOT want guys to look "overly warm or kind?"  Women may see that as appearing desperate, or not being very confident.  It's crucial that you don't make these mistakes.)

Anyway, good read.  Check it out.






 

Don't EVER Fall For This...

So, I was just going through my email inbox and I come across a message from a "woman" who "saw my profile" on an online dating site and wanted to email me.  Here is what she wrote and... note the attached pic:

"Hello dear friend...
 

I see your profile on a dating site
And both decided to write to you.
My name: Anastasiya
To me 29 years old. I am single. My growth 175 sm and weight 50 kg.
was born on July, 26th, 1981. 
I wish you had warned once. I search for serious attitudes. I am
looking for marriage and love. I do not play games. If you want to
play with me, then do not write for me. If you are looking also
for true and pure attitude then I shall wait with impatience your
letter. I send you as pictures, and I hope to receive your
replacement.
Forgive me please, but I should go. I wish you wrote for me more
than I knew more about you."

Anastasiya

Wow, I'm so excited to have such a down to earth, and HOT chick writing to me!!  I better get back to her right now!!

Not!!

I'm sure you've seen this scam garbage before.  I know I have.  In fact, I fell for it once and exchanged several emails with one of these "women", that ultimately ended with "her" asking me for $$$ for a plane ticket.  Not good!  (You can read the whole story in my book "Internet Dating Mastery".)

Needless to say, if you see something like this in your inbox, hit the DELETE BUTTON QUICKLY!  You'll be glad you did.

Profile of a VERY frustrated and Angry Woman.

WOW, I just came across a profile from a woman on POF that deserves a mention!

It's actually a woman I wrote previously, but she hadn't yet responded. I checked out her profile again recently and she had changed her write up a bit... Sit back, relax and enjoy:

"Because everything I write seems to offend you guys, I just erased my entire profile.

First off, you can't say things like "looking for a beautiful, smart, honest woman", when you are 1.ugly as hell,2. dumb as hell, and 3.a freakin liar..It's like who do guys think you are?

Oh yeah..and being broke is pretty bad too. Guys, look at who you are looking at before you send some common ass message randomly to any pretty girl..uhhh yea..desperate..You don't have the right to just email any girl that you gotta know is out of your league.

You have to know...and if you don't, then you are either dreaming or..let me re-iterate "STUPID”. What the hell are you thinking? I’m saying this because I have 83 new messages and they are all DORKS! Jesus..and if you think this is offensive..then you are not the guy for me..if you think I am approachable..you're on my level and we can see about something.

Confidence is GREAT! But some of you are just plain stupid. Oh yea, it's also pretty lame to try and get at a girl and when she denies you, you talk shit, like "you're not all that" and what was it one guy said to me "you're ugly anyway with your bushy ass eyebrows" LMFAO...losers.

I'm really not trying to talk shit, but RECOGNIZE...if you are sending me a message, check yourself and don't waste my time. I might sound stuck up, but that's not it...just sick of being hit on by idiots everywhere I go..If you know you are NOT an idiot, send me a message...

I'm really, a sweet girl. I mean c'mon guys, wouldn't you get sick of nasty, low class, broke ass broads with 3 kids hitting you up? But, I guess what can you expect from this lame ass site.

Now, sorry for that but I think I'm gonna delete this anyway. I can just tell you a little about me and try and keep an open mind.

My name is Angrygirl, I'm 29 and live in Angry Town, USA. I can say that I am well rounded, smart, caring, loyal and honest, not to mention confident and very independent. I am not sure that I am necessarily looking for anything, but instead, just sitting back and maybe seeing if unexpectedly I will be pleasantly surprised by someone who fits my standards.

Yes, I have standards and I don't think I'm asking too much, but I'm not going to list them, because, like I said, I try to keep an open mind. I can take care of myself and am definitely not wanting someone to, by any means, try and do that for me; just someone who will be honest and always have my back to the fullest and I promise I got yours too! Hit me up if you have any questions, or anything to say other than "hey sexy"..it gets old."

Thanks

Ok, now I'm not going to bash this poor woman, because God knows, she's been through enough in her life.

The reason I'm showcasing this profile is that I want to illustrate a few points.

   1)  "I’m saying this because I have 83 new messages and they are all DORKS!"  (I've always said... women get TONS of messages from guys everyday, and it's pretty evident what kind of messages she's getting.  Most guys write LAME, terrible messages to women, and this is why they aren't seeing any positive results with online dating.)

   2)  "You don't have the right to just email any girl that you gotta know is out of your league."  (As you know, there are NO women who are "out of your league."  That is something fabricated in your head and you can't let it become a permanent belief.  She considers guys with certain "looks" out of her league, but actually, she's referring to something far more important.  Which leads to...)  

   3)  "Confidence is GREAT! But some of you are just plain stupid.  Jesus..and if you think this is offensive..then you are not the guy for me..if you think I am approachable..you're on my level and we can see about something."  ( Very interesting!!  What is she saying here?  Basically, she's saying she wants a MAN.  I've never seen a woman illustrate this point quite this way, but it's very telling.  Confidence is always sexy to women and she considers a guy who can take her crap.. as more of a man.  And that guys who see her as "approachable" are "on her level."  Meaning, if you have the balls to approach her, then you are exactly what she needs in that moment.)

Ok, so lets wrap up this little lesson.

As far as this woman goes and her issues, I'm going to take the high road here.  Obviously, she has a lot of problems with maturity and other issues.  And don't get me wrong, this is NOT a woman I'd want to date. 

But, if we put that aside, we can see that a Confident man is always what women seek.  We also see that the competition out there is very weak and if you write emails using the strategies I teach, you will stand out from the crowd.

Finally, don't ever EVER take online dating too seriously or become "Angry Guy."  It's just not worth it and you are showing women that you aren't a real man.

Hope you got something out of this.  I'll be in touch soon!

 

How To Write A KILLER Online Dating Profile

In order to succeed at Online Dating, it is absolutely critical that you know how to write a dating profile that stands out and gets attention!  Chances are, all the online dating advice you've been receiving is DEAD WRONG!  If you've been following bad advice, then you won't be meeting any beautiful women online.

In the following video, I show you the Secret Formula I use to write online dating profiles that COMPEL women to respond! I also reveal one of my most embarrassing moments when I first started dating online. (I hope you don't laugh.)

Just click play below to check it out:




How to write a dating profile

How To Write A Dating Profile

I just finished a really cool video where I explain how to write an online dating profile that really STANDS OUT and gets ATTENTION!  Nothing is more important than making sure your profile is MUCH different then all the other ones out there.  If you want to get that HOT woman to check out your profile, then you need to see this video.  Just click to play.




How To Write A Dating Profile

The Neediness Curse

If you ever want to turn a woman OFF quickly, there's no better way than to start being needy.

I have a real life example I'd like to share:

My sister's best friend is a VERY attractive woman in her late 30's.  She's currently divorced and is basically, back in the dating scene.  Anyway, she recently went on a trip to the East coast to visit her father who is ill and in the hospital.

As it happens, she met a young guy who was one of the medics there.  They REALLY hit it off and immediately decided to start dating. 

Now, the two of them live on opposite sides of the country but they didn't care about that at the time.  So, once this woman came home from her trip, she gets a phone call from the young guy who says he's coming out to visit her.  (Normally not a big deal, but.... this guy had NO other reason for going across the country except to see a woman he just met.)

Around this time my Sister invites me over for dinner to see her friend's new "Boyfriend."  I came over and she told me about how he is just here for a visit and will be going back home in a few days.  I met him.  He was cool and I noticed he tended to follow his new flame around constantly wanting to be affectionate with her.

It was at this time, and upon learning that he flew across the country to see a woman he just met, that I said to myself, "This is NOT going to happen!  They'll split up in less than a month."

So, I recently just got back from a visit to my Sister's and asked her how it's going with them.  She told me that her friend thinks he's nice, BUT he's a little too needy... AND she's no longer returning his calls and texts.

How did I know?  How did I call it??

Well, I've made that very same mistake myself.  Not only the neediness thing, but I once flew down to see a woman I just met in my hometown.  She KNEW I was coming down ONLY TO SEE HER. 

What happened??

Once I got down there, she didn't return my calls!

What's going on here?  Simply put, women are totally and completely TURNED OFF by needy behavior.

Why?  Because it shows a lack of confidence!

And, what is the ONE thing women find most sexy in a guy?

Confidence!

So, the lesson here is, do NOT become needy and obsessed upon meeting a HOT girl!  If you want to visit her, HAVE ANOTHER REASON FOR GOING TO HER AREA!

Call her up and say:

"Hey, you know -  I'm going to be in your neck of the woods next week because I have to (visit a friend/attend a seminar/go there for work) and why don't I give you a call while I'm over there and maybe we'll meet for a drink?"

It conveys confidence and shows you have other things going on besides trying to meet up with her.

All VERY important stuff!

Remember, neediness KILLS attraction.

Confidence AMPLIFIES it.

Newsflash: She's NOT Interested!

Fishing Again!

I've found myself single once again and it's time to go fishing.

Before, I always focused my online dating efforts on sites such as match.com and Yahoo Personals, but I've recently plunged into Plentyoffish, one of the more popular free online dating sites.

There are things I like and things I don't.  Of course it being a free site is a good thing but with that comes drawbacks such as annoying advertising on most pages.  Advertisers are getting rather clever too with ad placement and appeal.  The other day I logged in to see who had "viewed me" and at the end of the row was a HOT looking woman, but upon further review I noticed this was an ad that looked similar to profile search results.

Crap!!

But, I DO like the women I'm seeing around there and I've already had some GREAT results after posting a brand new online dating profile.

Typical responses to my profile include:

"Thanks for making me laugh"  or  "Your profile was so funny, the scary thing is that really happens!"

The latter was referring to a line at the end of my profile where I simply state:

"So, stop reading and start writing.  Besides, I KNOW you want nothing to do with the other guys around here.  I hear they are known for proposing to women on the FIRST date.  Yikes!!"


So, I'll start sending out messages too using some subject lines from my upcoming new ebook; "101 eye-catching email subject lines."  I'll have plenty to choose from!

One more thing, almost EVERY woman I saw on there has some "requirements" at the end of her profile which say you must meet in order to message her.  POF has created this I suppose in an effort to match people more closely. And one of the requirements is almost always, "must not be looking or HAVE SEARCHED FOR casual hookups."

So, keep this in mind when going fishing over there.

I will, of course, keep you updated on my experiences on Plentyoffish. 

Stay tuned...

Free Ebook!

Here is a little Free Report I put together that I think you're going to like.  It's called "The Secret To Meeting beautiful Women Online."  Download it right here:

The Secret To Meeting Beautiful Women Online

Enjoy!

Are You Using This Subject Line??

I just ran across a very funny article about a crafty new subject line some guys are using when writing to women on internet dating sites.

Check it out here:

Internet Dating Article

My advice??? Obviously, don't do it! 

Some guys are too much!  lol

Busiest Time Of Year For Online Dating Websites

Happy New Year!

Yes, with the arrival of the new decade, comes the arrival of more
beautiful women to online dating websites around the world!

I just read that January is the busiest time of the year for online
dating.  Men and Women are joining in HUGE numbers and
you know what that means?

It means it's time to get off your ass and start putting together that
profile you've been putting off.  It's time to start responding to as
many women as possible because NOW IS THE TIME to reach
them in great numbers!

You know what?

During the last month I've had more views and responses to my
online dating profile than almost all of last year.  Blew me away!

I guess it makes sense since this is supposedly a HOT time for
internet dating.

So, get on it and start taking action.  The holidays are over, the
new year is here and it's time to meet someone.  And just so you
know I've reduced the price of my ebook Internet Dating Mastery
so if you want to get a good deal on it, now is the time.

Make this year your BEST!

How To Respond When She Rejects You...

Internet Dating Tips For Men – The Mindset for Success

So, you browsed around on a very popular online dating site and checked out all those stunningly attractive women and you just can’t wait to fire off witty emails to get their attention.

Right?

Or, you’ve written up what you think is an AWESOME profile and its time to submit it online and wait for a flood of responses.

Hold on!

Don’t you dare sign up to ANY Internet dating sites or write any profiles because you have something very important to do first.

What is it you ask?

Well, you HAVE to get you head on straight!

Let me ask you some questions.

Did you just get out of a very serious relationship that ended badly?

Are you freshly divorced or separated?

Are you out to replace your ex as SOON as possible to fill a certain void in your life?

If you answered “yes” to any of the above questions, then do me and every woman who has a dating profile a favor… and just wait!

That’s right, just wait and take the time to get your life together and your issues resolved.

The reason is if you go out and start dating online and don’t have your life together, then you are setting yourself up for failure. Do you think a beautiful, attractive, high quality woman wants to deal with a guy who still has issues and can’t let go of an ex?

Of course not!

And the whole reason for getting into Internet dating is to attract a high quality woman for YOU, right?

Now, if you go online and spew your venom and insecurities all over the place, who do you think you are going to attract?

Yep, another woman with the SAME issues.

Why is this? Because like attracts like when it comes to maturity and character. Take a moment and think back to all the women you’ve dated over the years. Got it? Good!

Now, which ones were a total pain in the butt?

I’m talking “SCREAM in your face every time you look at another woman” kind of pain in the butt?

Hm, if you’re like me, there were a lot of them.

OK, now try and think back to what state of mind YOU were in at the time. Were things going well for you?

Was your self-esteem intact? Did you really feel good about yourself?

Maybe not, huh?

During the last ten years I’ve met a lot of women online and one thing I’ve found is that when I don’t have my life together, I seem to attract the most super ultra high drama queens imaginable. And the relationship never lasts…

And I wasted a lot of time.

I don’t want you to waste your time. I want you to find a HIGH QUALITY woman who will be right for YOU.

So, before you go online and start corresponding with anyone, take a LONG look in the mirror and ask yourself...

Am I ready?

Do I have it together?

Once you do the work to get these issues resolved, I GUARANTEE that you will have better results meeting high quality women online.

And that’s what it’s all about!

Right?

Emailing Women SUCKS!

Are You Making These Profile Mistakes?

Ok, I've been looking at some profiles that guys are sending and I realized it's time to send out a list of things to NOT include on your online dating profile. Hope this helps:

1. Do not show a picture of yourself wearing a "World of Warcraft" T-shirt.
Need I say more?

2. "I love to curl up on a rainy day and read a good book, cuddle, and take long walks on the beach." Yes, women like to do these things, but they don't want to hear that from you. Women want a REAL man!

3. Any picture with your shirt off.
It's CHEEZY and not what women want to see in a guy's profile. She wants to see her boyfriend with his shirt off, not you.

4. Weird stuff like: "Hey my name's Joe, but the ladies call me stud muffin."
This is a HUGE turn off and quite lame!

5. Self-deprecating humor. (Making fun of yourself.)

6. Showing you have money.
"In my spare time, I love cruising around in my Porsche." Trying way TOO hard! Do you want the kind of woman who is impressed by this?? I think not!

7. Being too unavailable.
"I work 60-70 hours per week."
Woman thinks: "You will not have time for me."

8. Profile that's too long. Always be MYSTERIOUS! Saying too much kills attraction!
She shouldn't have to scroll down to read your write up.

9. Too many/not enough pictures.
You only need 5 pics.
A. One head shot where the girl can clearly see your face. No sunglasses, hats, etc. It shows you're trying to hide something.
B. A picture of you doing something fun. Perhaps one of your hobbies?
C. A picture of you out with friends.
D. More of B and C.

10. Show a CONFIDENT writing style! Do NOT use passive language.

So, there you go. Constructing a magnetic profile that attracts quality women isn't so hard if you follow the rules above. Post comments and tell me what you think.

When to Write Women...

Summer is here! Well, at least where I live. The interesting thing is that Summer does have an effect on when to send emails to women on internet dating sites. Obviously, more women are out doing things during this time of year and are spending less time online.

One thing that does not change is the amount of time people spend online during the week at their jobs. You wouldn't believe how many women spend their days, bored at unfulfilling jobs reading their emails. I used to post an ad on Craigslist and the replies would come in one after another at all hours during the day on weekdays.

So, what does this mean? It means you still want to post new ads on Craigslist, MORNINGS during the week. This is when women are going to be surfing the web looking for clever ads with unique headlines... You know, the kind you learn about in my book, "Internet Dating Mastery." So, keep doing that.

On weekends though, you'll want to tone down your efforts. Summer is all about going out and enjoying your passions! So live it up this Summer!! And meet some attractive women, don't let this opportunity go to waste.

Why She Won't Respond To Your Emails...

Ok, so a lot of guys have been writing me lately on the subject of emails... more specifically, they are having trouble getting women to respond to that first email. This is, in fact, the most common hurdle men face with online dating. They see a profile with a woman who looks GREAT, so they send her an email. Now, the wait begins and if they didn't get her attention using the methods I teach, then they'll be waiting a LONG time for a response.

Remember, women are getting bombarded with emails all day long from guys. That's probably something you already know and it's important to realize. Now all you have to do is GET HER ATTENTION and do something that no other guy is doing!!!

The way to do this is with mysterious and ambiguous email subject lines. After going through years of testing various emails and their response rate, I found that most women will look at an email subject line FIRST when deciding whether or not to respond. That's really the only thing making her click! The exception would of course be if she's on a site where a pic is included with the response, such as Match.

So, be sure and include a subject line that will have her wondering, "What does this guy mean?" or "What is he talking about?"

Here's my all time fave: "Hey, you'd better stop that right now!"

It works in email subject lines and profile headlines. Then you follow it up with something clever like, "That's right, you'd better stop wasting your time browsing around lame profiles! You're going to fall asleep!"

Then just go right into your email.. See how easy it is? That's how you get her attention.

Give it a try and be SURE to let me know what happens!

If you want to discover several other ways to get a woman's attention online then my ebook "Internet Dating Mastery" is the place to find them.

Go read it now and become an Internet Dating Master!

V-Day Sucks!

Man, I used to really HATE Valentines Day. Well, that's because I was almost always single when V-Day came around for it's yearly reminder that I have nobody special in my life. It was a day I wanted to forget! Driving by Red Lobster and seeing the place packed with couples! That was both hilarious and depressing at the same time.

Well, I'm here to say that V-Day ain't so bad...

You see, it's the perfect time to go online and test out some new strategies. There are so many different methods you can use and if executed perfectly, you'll have to CHOOSE who you want to be with on Valentines Day.

Why don't you try something like this... As the dreaded day approaches, start sending out emails with the following subject line: "V-Day disasters." Or "Valentines Day disasters." My open rate exploded when I used this line once!!

Where do you take it from there? Easy. Just say something like, "Having to spend V-Day with him instead of me." Then you can list the reasons why that would be a huge mistake!

And who is him, anyway?

Internet Dating is for Losers!

Is that what you believe? I sincerely hope not!

I was just talking to a female friend of mine and she refused to believe that a guy could meet quality women online and run "smooth game" on the internet.

I had to laugh as she said that. It's so funny how some people believe there's a stigma with online dating and only "losers" are looking for dates online. Those who have such a ridiculous belief generally fall into one of two categories.

1) They've NEVER tried online dating and don't know what it's about.

2) They tried it once, didn't know how to do it effectively and failed at it. Then they gave up convinced that it's a waste of time.

Well, I have to feel sorry for folks in both groups. If you fall into the first group then that's OK. You just need to take some action and get into the game. The sooner the better!

As far as the second group, well all you have to do is learn how to meet people online the right way. And if you use my strategies for meeting quality women online, you'll have more dates that you've ever had before!

So, I told my friend all about how I've met tons of cool, attractive women online and how it's important for guys to be non-needy, convey their confidence and show their personalities in their profiles. She didn't have much to say after that.

To all those people who think online dating is for losers. Well, go right ahead. In the mean time the rest of us will enjoy meeting tons of quality women from the .... gulp Internet.

This Is Going To Piss You Off...

OK, I want you to stop and think why you want to read this post. Is it because of the subject line? I'm thinking yes! We often don't realize how important subject lines are when writing to women on internet dating sites. There are so many different variations I use to get a woman's attention and this is yet another one.

So, I start my email with this subject line, "This is going to piss you off." Do you think she's going to open it? Damn right! Now, where do I go from there? How do I start off this email? Well I need to be clever and make it funny. What could piss her off? Think about typical "chick" things that annoy them. Well, what could be more annoying than other guys on dating sites!! It's always fun to reference some dude who's totally clueless when it comes to online dating. Ok, here we go:

Subject: "This is totally going to piss you off!"

Body: I mean, it's come to my attention that the guy below me in your inbox is actually MARRIED and looking for a fling. Really! If that isn't bad enough, the guy above you is LYING about his age! Ok, now that we've established their true intentions, we can focus on me...

And just take it from there!

Now Is The Time!

That's right! The holidays are here and now is the time to take advantage of all those lonely single women who don't have a special someone over the holidays. If you were thinking of taking a break, well think again!

I remember back when I first started out with online dating. I would send out emails constantly and never take a break. Then the holidays would come around and I thought, "Well, now isn't the time for online dating. All the girls are on vacation." I was WRONG! The holidays are an even BETTER time to be sending out emails and fine tuning that dating profile! As I mentioned above, there are tons of lonely girls out there and the holidays are not a fun time to be alone. Women are hard wired to belong to a group. Nothing makes a person feel more excluded than being alone during the holidays.

My point? Get out there and send emails to all the women you can find. Who knows, you might find that perfect date for New Year's Eve.

What To Say When She "Rejects" You...

So, you've sent an email to a woman you REALLY like. It was one of your BEST emails, one that will surely catch her attention. You wait a few days for her response and...... nothing.

You wait a few more days and still no response.

So, you send her your standard, "no response" email. She's sure to respond to that one.

You wait a few days and THERE IT IS!

She responded! You read her response which says,

"Hi, so sorry about not getting back to you. Things have been really hectic around here. Unfortunately, I don't think we are a good match."

Take care,

(name)

Ah, there it is... The "take care" message that so many women send. I would swear they all belong to some underground women's group where they all use this "take care" message as
their standard response. It's kind of like a woman's standard fake number.

If you've been involved in online dating for any length of time, I'm sure you've seen this response.

So, how do you respond?

Well, lets first talk about what NOT to do.

What you don't do is get all mad and send her an angry response. Here's one a woman once got from an angry guy,

"You know, I don't know how you can reject someone when you haven't even met them in person. You don't even know me. We could have been a great match. Next time, why don't you give a guy a chance.."

Now, don't ever send a response like that. What does the above message say about a person?

It says,

"I'm angry, rejected and I'm putting too much importance on what you think of me. I don't have a whole lot going on in my life so I was hoping you would like me. I feel so bad about you rejecting me that I'm going to try and get you back by shaming you."

See, how silly that is? No woman on an internet dating site who you've never even met should ever have the ability to lower you like that. It doesn't do any good to get angry and try and "get her back." That's a waste of time and energy.

Instead, send her back something like this:

"Hey, no problem! I've got thick skin. Anyway, good luck out there. You're going to need it."

Says all the right things about you and it's rather ambiguous with the "you're going to need it" comment at the end. She'll be dying to know what you mean by that... it might even get her coming back to you.

Try it and let me know what happens.

Secret Halloween Online Dating Tips

So, Halloween is here! Always my favorite time of year. When I was a kid, obviously I loved Halloween because of the pillow case full of candy I would always receive from generous neighbors.

Now it's not so much about candy, it's more about Halloween parties with sexy women in mind blowing SEXY costumes! Just go out on the streets Friday night and you'll find them... kitty outfits, devil outfits, cop girl outfits, and I'm sure we're going to see more than a few Sarah Palin clones out there this year. Not that I mind.

So, how does online dating fit into all of this. Well, now's the time to send a "Halloween Party" email template to women. Chances are, you know where a halloween party is this year and if you don't, ask someone where one is.

Go online and send a woman something like,

Subject: "Halloween Party Wanted"

Body: "OK, you look like a person who just might know where one is in our lovely town. So, show me the way to the nearest, wildest Halloween Party and I just might give you the pleasure of escorting me.

Let me know soon! Time is running out!

Name

There you go. Try it out. You just might meet someone special and have the time of your life in the process.

The BEST sample profiles

So, you sit down to write a dating profile and you have NO idea what to write. You REALLY want to write one up but NOTHING is coming to mind.

Well, why not use a profile someone else wrote?

Wouldn't it be a whole lot easier to just rip off some other guy's profile and use it as your own?

No, not a good idea!

It's never good to copy another guy's profile word for word and post it under your name.

There are several reasons for that. One being is it won't make any sense. When a woman reads your profile she is already starting to figure out what kind of person you are. Now, after she responds to you, she is expecting the same guy she read about to respond back to her.

If she sees someone else respond, it's pretty much game over.

It has to do with congruency. Everything in the online dating process needs to be congruent from your profile, pictures, and emails, all the way to who you are in person. If anything is off, you're going to have a hard time finding a high quality woman online.

It is OK to use sample profiles but NOT for copying. They are to be used for modeling. You want to model success not copy it.

So, next time you write a profile, keep that in mind.

Make it a Habit!

One really important thing to do when you're "online dating" is to develop a system that works for you. Take all the components involved; designing an eye-catching profile and tweaking it, responding to women, going out on dates, calling women, and create a system that will allow you to have all of it on autopilot.

Let's take emailing women as an example. You come home from work after a busy day and you decide to fire off some emails. Well, first you need to check your inbox and see who has emailed and winked at you. Go through the winks and decide which of the women who sent them you find attractive. Don't wink back at them! Instead, fire off your standard, "wink response" and see if she bites. If not, no big deal. Now quickly move to your emails. Again, decide which ones you like and send your standard, "she emailed first" response...

Done. That was easy!

Now, quickly check out the profiles of women who have viewed you recently. These are women who are already interested in you... Look for ones you find attractive and send your standard, "viewed me" email to them. If she bites fine. If not, move on.

Decide to send a total of five emails tonight. If the amount of "viewed me" emails you just sent doesn't total five, start doing a profile search in your area. Find women you really like and then fire off your standard, "first email."

You sent five emails! You're done for tonight! Now go on to something more important while you wait to see the results of your efforts.

That's it! Online Dating on autopilot. Make it a habit!

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