Archive for October 2010

Is She Looking For A One Night Stand?

I was just skimming some profiles with attractive women on the site, “PlentyOffish” and I come across a woman with some bathing suit pics.  She was rather HOT.  I then go down to read her profile and I just KNEW it was coming…

It never ceases to amaze me how often I see it in these kinds of profiles.

What is it you ask?

It’s this line:

“Also, if your looking for a one night stand PLEASE don’t bother communicating with me. If I wanted a one night stand I could hit the local bar, and skip the messaging process!!”

What is it with women who post sexy pictures of them in bathing suits or skimpy clothing, and then declaring to the world that they’re “NOT LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND?”

Well, STOP POSTING SEXY PICS and you won’t get so many messages from guys looking for one night stands!  Geez!

If you’ve read my book, “Internet Dating Mastery” you already know the SECRET clues in a woman’s profile that will tell you if she’s looking for such a relationship.  Posting revealing pics is only part of the “picture.”

There’s more to it which I won’t go into here.  I just find it funny that I always see this OVER and OVER again!

So, back to browsing profiles.  I’ll let you in on a few more secrets a little later.

Share This Post

How To Respond To Winks

Ok, a lot of dating sites have a feature where you can “wink” or send some sort of ice breaker to a woman.

Now, I’ve said it before and I’m going to say it again…. DO NOT SEND WINKS TO WOMEN!


Because it shows you have NO balls!  Women complain all the time about guys sending them winks and don’t have the balls to send a message!  Not good… because this shows a lack of confidence.  And you know how women feel about guys who aren’t confident!

But, what if a woman sends YOU a wink??  What do you do?

Well, I have a little line I like to send back that works GREAT for me!  If I get a wink from an attractive woman, I like to send the following message back to her:

“Hey, was that you winking at me from across the room?  Why don’t you come over and introduce yourself! C’mon, don’t be shy!”

See how that works?  It’s short, blunt and puts it back on her to come over and “introduce herself.”

Try it out and let me know how it works!  I think you’ll be surprised!

Share This Post

Welcome To The New BLOG!

Yes, it’s online!  A new place for your Internet Dating Tips For Men Blog.

I always wanted to make my blog an easier place to navigate for you and other guys and I think I’ve done that.  You’ll see all my articles, posts and comments from my various sites now on this blog serparated and organized into categories.  Just click on the categories on my main blog page to go to that set of posts.

I’ve also put my website into a WordPress platform which makes it easier to update and maintain.

Check out my new products page as well where you’ll see my cool free stuff, as well as new products in the works.

Hope you like it… and don’t forget to add your comments.  I want to hear from you!

Share This Post