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Internet Dating Tips For Men – The Mindset for Success

So, you browsed around on a very popular online dating site and checked out all those stunningly attractive women and you just can’t wait to fire off witty emails to get their attention.


Or, you’ve written up what you think is an AWESOME profile and its time to submit it online and wait for a flood of responses.

Hold on!

Don’t you dare sign up to ANY Internet dating sites or write any profiles because you have something very important to do first.

What is it you ask?

Well, you HAVE to get you head on straight!

Let me ask you some questions…

Did you just get out of a very serious relationship that ended badly?

Are you freshly divorced or separated?

Are you out to replace your ex as SOON as possible to fill a certain void in your life?

If you answered “yes” to any of the above questions, then do me and every woman who has a dating profile a favor… and just wait!

That’s right, just wait and take the time to get your life together and your issues resolved.

The reason is if you go out and start dating online and don’t have your life together, then you are setting yourself up for failure. Do you think a beautiful, attractive, high quality woman wants to deal with a guy who still has issues and can’t let go of an ex?

Of course not!

And the whole reason for getting into Internet dating is to attract a high quality woman for YOU, right?

Now, if you go online and spew your venom and insecurities all over the place, who do you think you are going to attract?

Yep, another woman with the SAME issues.

Why is this? Because like attracts like when it comes to maturity and character. Take a moment and think back to all the women you’ve dated over the years. Got it? Good!

Now, which ones were a total pain in the butt?

I’m talking “SCREAM in your face every time you look at another woman” kind of pain in the butt?

Hm, if you’re like me, there were a lot of them.

OK, now try and think back to what state of mind YOU were in at the time. Were things going well for you?

Was your self-esteem intact? Did you really feel good about yourself?

Maybe not, huh?

During the last ten years I’ve met a lot of women online and one thing I’ve found is that when I don’t have my life together, I seem to attract the most super ultra high drama queens imaginable. And the relationship never lasts…

And I wasted a lot of time.

I don’t want you to waste your time. I want you to find a HIGH QUALITY woman who will be right for YOU.

So, before you go online and start corresponding with anyone, take a LONG look in the mirror and ask yourself…

Am I ready?

Do I have it together?

Once you do the work to get these issues resolved, I GUARANTEE that you will have better results meeting high quality women online.

And that’s what it’s all about!



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Emailing Women SUCKS!

What do you think is the MOST frustrating part of online dating???

What do you HATE the most about it?

I’ll bet you don’t have to think too hard about it because I’m guessing that you find “getting women to respond to your emails” the MOST frustrating!

Am I right?

Well, I know because I’ve been there. I remember the days of sending out multiple emails to every HOT woman I could find, only to be rejected again and again and AGAIN!


After all, what’s the point of even spending all this time with internet dating if you can’t get women to view or respond to your emails??


Well, I’ve got news for you…

Did you know that most of the women you are emailing aren’t even OPENING your messages?

It’s true!

Now, if most women aren’t opening your messages then they definitely can’t write you back!

No, these women aren’t “rejecting” you for being too bald, too short, too old, or too fat…

They aren’t even SEEING your emails in the first place!

A woman can’t reject someone she doesn’t know exists… right?

This is good news!

Now, what you need to do is make sure women are opening your emails. As you know, attractive women are getting bombarded with emails from guys every hour of every day and you better BELIEVE that they are going to delete ones that don’t get their attention… FAST!

So, what is it that determines whether or not a woman will open your email?

It comes down to ONE thing:

Your email subject line!

If you are using a dating site that also displays a user’s picture with the message then she will see that too but your email subject line is the single MOST important part of your message and if you want your emails read… you had BETTER get it right!

No, lines like, “Hey baby” or “Hi” aren’t going to cut it.

If you use one of those subject lines, your email will be deleted immediately!

Well lucky for you, I’ve come up with a way of making sure your emails will get opened and read EVERY TIME! It’s really not that hard to do and you’ll be kicking yourself for not learning this sneaky little trick sooner. It involves using mystery and ambiguity in your subject lines. Women can’t resist this! It drives them NUTS!

Imagine sending an email with the following subject line:

“Wait! You’re about to MAKE a HUGE mistake! Don’t do it!”

Now, when ANY woman comes across an email with that subject you can be SURE she’s going to open it.

The next part is crucial!

You have to follow it up in your email in a way that makes sense. Don’t just launch into your message without explaining the subject line. You have to be clever here… Say something like:

“…Don’t open that message from the guy above me unless you enjoy bicycle dates. He doesn’t own a car. Anyway…”

That’s just one of many messages I’ve sent to women and they just EAT IT UP!

What does it do?

First, it gets their attention… very important!

Second, it shows that I have a sense of humor. Also SUPER IMPORTANT. Most guys don’t use ANY humor in their emails to attractive women because they are so scared of them.

Finally, it shows I have confidence and I’m NOT afraid to express who I am! Super important!

Try it out and let me know how it goes!

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